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Mar 25, 2020 - 23:49
Sun Sign - AriesFilip » Awadamafever
I think that the main issue here is not anger, thus purely Mars related, but rather the assertiveness.

Yeah, you do have a major 8th house influence, alongside Cap Moon, making showing your emotions quite hard (anger included ofc), and yeah, you do have non confrontational Pisces Mars and Pluto square and also Jupiter on top of it all (which is probably not helping here (increases what it touches & Mars = anger))...

But, assertiveness and earth shattering, "on the dime" anger expression == Aries & 1st house.
You have Saturn in Aries AND 1st house ruler (Merc) in a square to it. Also Sun/Neptune conjunction...

That said leads me to believe that the best way would be to work on assertiveness. Once you improve it, easier and more "flowing" anger expression will follow by extension...
Perhaps by, whenever possible, getting yourself somewhere private in front of a mirror (eg. bathroom), following a confrontation and simply "emptying your gut" while watching yourself do it. Rince and repeat and eventually you´ll be able to do it completely calmly but effectively (Cap Merc & in aspect with Saturn).

Why do that? Well, Saturn could be subconsciously making you feel ashamed and afraid of yourself and anger (all Aries stuff)...
Solution == face it!
You have what it takes (Karate is a "disciplined fighting", isn´t it..... :3:), you´re just being challenged to bring it out on your own and own it (square). :1:
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Mar 25, 2020 - 20:04
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » Awadamafever
I advise you to do karate again. it releases a lot and allows you to control your emotions you will gain self-control.
karate is not a violent sport it´s a fight against oneself (control,respect and discipline). it´s easy,you could try?
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Mar 24, 2020 - 14:41
Sun Sign - Taurusnutelina » Awadamafever
And have some fun!
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Mar 24, 2020 - 13:52
Sun Sign - VirgoAnamel » Awadamafever
haha same here, I have my mars in the first house in pisces and I shake when I´m angry, even my face twitches uncontrollably. Voice shakes too. It´s weird and it sucks
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Mar 24, 2020 - 11:42
Sun Sign - LibraOpal E » Awadamafever
Mercury in Capricorn is the midpoint between your Mars and Pluto. Utilize the communication to assist you from shaking calmly. Read about Mercury in Capricorn.
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Mar 21, 2020 - 09:54
Sun Sign - Taurusnutelina » Awadamafever
Ugh... always have been mending my parent´s relationship as well. Not my part to partake in! Seems you have some emotional clean up to do. I wouldn´t say this normally but many people used MDMA or similar to release such emotions. I´d do it with natural psychological methods first but after years of work I still think to really go back to that emotional brainstate you need something more to open up. The rational brain cannot understand but needs to stay in control or at least we have learned that, as we all, I think.

I often would go ranting in my head as well. You need to speak up or write a book. Get all that crap out of your system :27:

Since when do you think you couldn´t speak openly about your feelings? You don´t necessarily have to answer here but for yourself. Sometimes when we cannot be kids that energy is blocked and can be harmful. Everything has to come out for us to heal. Such bottled up emotions can even lead to disease much later in life. I say can, not will so don´t worry. You should foremost not take anything from people who try to control or oppress you seriously. That´s how they have power over you. Maybe it helps to come out of that role. And be yourself for once!

Studying yourself and your relationships through Astrology is a great tool. I did it with my parents and grandparents already. It has revealed much more than I would have every thought!
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Mar 21, 2020 - 06:11
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » Awadamafever
Only one firm and real opposition (and trigon) in natal could help you a lot. This way, with all these sextiles and squares, you are generating great amount of energy that has no focus and acts like an obcurus and being that wild, it is very hard to controle...

You can overcome this troughout good composite (close friend, member of family, partner...) or the way you already started to overcome this - meditation, wisdom, selfrealisation, trainig ...
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Mar 21, 2020 - 02:53
Sun Sign - Piscesfishscales » Awadamafever
If there´s a situation in which you feel like you´re going to get angry, excuse yourself and take some deep breaths...get centered until you´re no longer angry... You will most likely naturally begin to see all sides of the situation...then readdress it. Also, get yourself to the point where you feel detached from the outcome of the situation: concentrate on right action. Don´t fight for yourself, fight for an ideal: resolution, sanity, justice, etc.

Offer up your ego as sacrifice to resolve the situation... Do this in your mind, there is no need to speak it.. Let the fearless, higher parts of yourself take over...they won´t lead you astray.

Amidst all this, make sure you aren´t taking a "peace at any price" approach...fight for what you know is right... Which may not always be what you think you "want"...

You said you´ve practiced martial arts... Any internal ones like Tai chi or Aikido?

These can help you adopt a calmer mindset in general, and also in these types of situations...it´s almost as if they short circuit the fight or flight response...which is what´s causing you the stress in these situations.

A good breathing exercise regimen can work wonders too...
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Mar 20, 2020 - 16:24
Sun Sign - Taurusnutelina » Awadamafever
Thanks for being so honest and open. I have Mars in Pisces too. I hate confrontations, if it gets to it, it´s really bad. But I know everybody here knows that by now :61:

However, my voice doesn´t shake, it is very strong. My daugther can yell like me too, she is Capricorn with Moon in Virgo. The other Capricorn moon, she can sing very well but she doesn´t yell. Maybe she doesn´t feel threatened, also Leo rising instead of us Cancer rising (my oldest). How is Mercury connected to the voice I wonder?

Earth moons are pretty dominant that´s what I know from experience :4: Calm, calm, calm, then volcano outbursts. My oldest Capricorn daugther with Virgo moon cries afterwards too, maybe some bottled up emotions?

Mars in Pisces is also legs? Maybe you feel you have no strength but only in the legs?

I saw your Sun is in the 11th and some others, check your transits. Also Saturn in the 11th in Aries natally.
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Mar 20, 2020 - 15:26
Sun Sign - CancerTrevor77 » Awadamafever
I want to try and word this the best I can.

Mars in the 10th house will honour you with strength, courage, stamina and warrior or athelete qualities potentially.. as this placement is in many sport enthusiasts.

So next to Jupiter its showing this as a Beneficial spot as opposed to a weakness which your describing it.

In the 10th house is Public, Out in the World so suggestions would be any kind of sports like swimming, womens footy or boxing.

but as we´re going through a pandemic, you have Leo on 4th house and Mars is your 12th ruler which is any kinda therapy, so creative arts at home having therapeutic benefit eg. colouring

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Nov 6, 2019 - 20:14
Sun Sign - ScorpioMelodicBlu » Awadamafever
In the synastry of me and my ex:

A double whammy of Mercury square Mercury and Sun, both ways.
It was hard to communicate, sometimes we were able to have good long talks but for me personally i wasnt able to explain myself clear enough towards him, and always felt like i was losing my mind, literally, like forgetting what i meant, such as complete disconnection from my mind to my emotions when i had to explain something to that specific person. i only had this with him, never ever experienced it before. Within that same synastry there was a Mars square Mars, (within his birthchart he has mars opposite sun, so he sees everyone as competition, and it really was that way also) if i wanted to workout for sum reason, than he immediately said ´i go run now´ like he couldnt stand if i would better myself physically, but this was likewise, bc i got so fakking annoyed from his behaviour about his body, triggering me also into wanting to be better in some way. fakking unhealthy combo, do not recommend.
He had his asc falling into my 6th house, his chiron was also within my 6th house, and his ASC ruler (mercury) was square to my 6th house ruler (sun), i have gotten so sick within this relationship, ended up having an eating disorder for over 5 years. i was physically drained by this relationship. wtf one thing tho, when you check synastry, pls dont forget about that boring 6th house.. bc if your health is being destroyed by it, than its a reason to escape aswell.
His mars was square my pluto, i dont know where to start explaining this shit. but this became more visible after the relationship i think, because that ended up into 7 months of sexual assault, manipulation and abuse in a fucked up perverted way, his pluto in my 8th being square to my moon. jesus christ, this dude really tried to manipulate my emotions and thoughts his pluto also being conjunct to my mars.. holy shit,. such bad synastry,.. tho dont get fooled by that bc this shit lasted for 6 years straight.. i still dont understand how.. how. 6 years man..
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Nov 6, 2019 - 14:48
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » Awadamafever
Mars square Sun double whammy in close orb is awful... The relationship is a constant battle of egos.

Moon square Moon is even worse... I don´t know if anyone can live with someone with this aspect between them.

Chiron in hard aspect in synastry to personal planets is a constant pain though it often start out promising.

The oppositions in synastry is always easier to deal with than squares. I´ll take an opposition over a square.

In the opposition you share some of the same characteristics, but see things from another point of view. If the opposition is not in a fix sign then it can workout well. If not then oppositions are terrible.
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Nov 6, 2019 - 11:36
Sun Sign - Piscesfishscales » Awadamafever
Mars square Mars... I don´t want to say it was "bad" per se, but we were very competitive with each other...
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