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Nov 25, 2021 - 16:24
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - Pisces11 » Anna L
That was just a silly thought, don´t need to include magic.

You do sound a little spoiled (but it´s nice and that´s exactly how it should be :61:)
You claim trying to help your husband. I bet you care. But this also sounds like a cry and pity for yourself.
So I´ll try to encourage you. Don´t neglect yourself, take care of your health! It´s not only your husband having Neptune conj NN, it´s also conj your Mars, which could bring weakness and infections.

He could be having some crazy thoughts also due to Uranus square Mercury transit. It will pass.

I see you having tight Saturn conj his Mars in synastry. You restrict his impulsiveness, but now when he´s having that Uranus transit, he could rebel a bit with his unusual ideas, feeling tired of your nagging, truly. Your fixed Moons clash also, which doesn´t help.
Maybe try to focus on Venus themes (what brings you both pleasure and happiness).

It sucks when both partners are having rough time simultaneously (u both also having Uranus opp Pluto). I guess it´s the ultimate test of relationships. How far can you sacrifice and is it worth it. Hopefully it won´t be that bad, just short term misunderstanding.
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Nov 24, 2021 - 22:30
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - Pisces11 » Anna L
Idk if this will have any use, I’m not even sure if I believe in it.

But few days ago I watched a witchcraft show, episode about family, who had lots of arguments and son was having bad thoughts and desire to leave this earth.
Turned out he had a mirror in his room (object they took from old house that was “cursed”, cause a murder happened in front of that mirror). So witch told that the mirror is like a portal between two worlds so the man having that mirror in room is constantly influenced by that portal and energy it sucked in.

Maybe you have some object or he has some object along with him, that distracts his attention. And should get rid of it.
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Nov 24, 2021 - 22:18
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - TaurusIceblu333 » Anna L
You Hope he is happy...?

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Instead of asking him "via communication" for his Birth information... you asked his mother...

Instead of "knowing" that he is happy "via communication" you simply hope for the best that he´s happy...

Ok....

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He doesn´t seem to be the issue...

It seems like the issue is you and your ability to communicate or even handle the thought that he differs from you in some beliefs;

I just have one last question... and I´m going back to watching a movie...

What really do you bring to the table for him and What would you bring to the table for any other man if this man left you...

Can another woman easily bring that to the table and more for your Husband?

And fulfill a possible hole that he may be missing from his life?
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Nov 24, 2021 - 21:15
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » Anna L
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Nov 24, 2021 - 20:54
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - TaurusIceblu333 » Anna L
Ok...

You do know how many women would love to be in your position, right?

But regardless... since it doesn´t matter anyway...

Besides the fact that he really is sacrificing alot for you and the family.

Honestly he doesn´t HAVE to do anything. He could just leave... there would be consequences but If I were him my sanity and knowledge of having peace when I come home would definitely be worth more than dealing with a wife nagging me, kids nagging me and a life/Job that is forcing me to work during a pandemic to provide for a life that is not peaceful.

Yes, I would love you, and the kids and the beautiful lake house in the woods... but I would prefer my peace more.

Just something to think about.

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The real question is... is HE HAPPY...

Being that YOU want this life, YOU have the role to MAKE SURE THAT HE IS HAPPY NOT JUST YOU AND HIM SACRIFICING JUST FOR YOU.

EVERYTHING IS NOT ABOUT YOU.

Even though he loves you. And the kids. And the life you currently have.

If I was not happy I would be gone, sorry.

But im single and would NEVER SACRIFICE My time and life for someone like he is doing for you.

50/50

Not 90/10. I´m just saying.

And any other women out there would snatch him up in a heartbeat.

And say fuck your family. And give him the time of his life.


But im done. Do what you want to do...
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Nov 24, 2021 - 20:42
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - GeminiAmberMoon » Anna L
Hello Anna,

I read your story.

What your husband told you and what you perceived as BS felt very genuine to me.

I can imagine his disappointment in the event that you should have told him that to his face.

I felt that while he was laying bare his soul, you seemed more worried about chores instead. But I could be wrong; just going by my interpretation of a text-based account.

And yes I know, from experience, this is very important, equal distribution of tasks and responsibilities, etc... Especially with children, the periods where you are on your own for a while, they are least pleasant, but sometimes also necessary... For that one time a man will do that:
I mean, this is what women complain about: why men don´t open up more.

But of course, taking care of finances should not be used in arguments like that. It´s humiliating, and we all deserve to keep our dignity, so it´s a good thing he apologised afterwards.

In fact, a lot of the things your husband said about being here and elsewhere at the same time, resonate with me.

If he´s a Pisces then his ruling planets are Neptune and Jupiter.
I have Neptune near my ascendant and Jupiter rules my ascendant.

I can tell you that existence for me feels very foggy, I don´t need drugs to get there. I can look at my shadow, hands, feet during the day and continuously think: is this really me? What am I doing here?
I´m still not used to it.

The dream world, as unruly as it is, actually feels more like home than earthly being.

And so it costs a lot of energy to participate in structures that for other people seem routine.

And because so much energy has to go to these things day in day out, in the end there´s little left for the things that really require energy. And unfortunately those are the things people will quickly notice you lacking in most.

So, if no one around, esp. closest, shows some feeling of understanding this can add to fatigue or a sense of loss of direction.

Not to say one should wallow in the mists, but support is definitely appreciated and needed.

Good luck to the both of you at any rate!
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Nov 24, 2021 - 20:21
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » Anna L
can you be specific with the town/city name?
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Nov 24, 2021 - 20:20
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - TaurusIceblu333 » Anna L
Do you work? Or does he provide all of the financial support?
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Nov 24, 2021 - 18:45
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - Pisces11 » Anna L
She asked about his birthdate and i told her that it´s february 22nd. She just nods and tells me that he´s a "fish", they are like that.


:61:

It’s true. I’m not man, I don’t have wife, kids or responsibilities, but now (with Neptune transit) I feel similar as your husband. :23: plus the crisis that goes on, I think maybe it affects frequency of whole world.. even if you live in forest away from all the madness , you still feel a bit down and worse than usual.
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Nov 24, 2021 - 18:42
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - VirgoAren Levi » Anna L
Sorry for my english
Many reasons why he is behaving like that

- tired, exhausted ( should use of vacation )

- some age crisis ( knowing he is not gonna be younger and all he did in his life is family with no higher legacy )

- maybe hormone problems ? ( testosterone, need of working out )

- any sexual issues ?

- maybe he thinks you are cheating on him ?

- maybe trouble at work ? not feeling as succesful

I would bet on that age crisis - he just getting older and he relaize that
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Nov 24, 2021 - 18:33
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - TaurusIceblu333 » Anna L
The Astrology...


You have been married for 5 years? Are your children 1 and 2?

5 years is not a drastically long time, Uranus changes signs every 7 years and with that things can drastically change every 7 years.

Saturn also tests people as it changes signs every 3 years... but I digress...

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Currently, you have some [] transits that are hitting. But I don´t know the exact times of the aspects due to you not having your birth time posted.

Transits Such as;

Transit Pluto conjunct Natal Moon

Transit Rahu conjunct Natal Jupiter as Uranus transits the same sign as the Natal Jupiter.

Transit Neptune Conjunct Natal Rahu

And lastly, you are going through Sade Sati with Saturn conjunct the Natal Moon.

Those are some interesting transits...
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Nov 24, 2021 - 18:22
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - TaurusIceblu333 » Anna L
Um... Hi...

Well... take this with the fact that I´m single... and selfish and most of the times a jerk...

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He told you what was wrong. You didn´t listen; It seems like he tried to fix it as well by trying to find common ground... showing you his favorite music ect.

To me it seems like the fun is gone from the relationship. He´s not having fun anymore. And just wants some space to figure out what to do about it to make it better. It maybe also that he doesn´t even know what the problem is exactly... but it is just that... no fun... he´s in autopilot and just wants a break from it all... working, kids, wife... he just wants to stop... people get tired... they do. Isolating him or trying to push him will only make the distance between both of you worse because he feels like you don´t understand him...

But by what you´re saying... you seem to now have different wants...

He cares about you but also wants to have his space because you or kids is not fulfilling one or a few of his needs... and honestly that´s a normal feeling. Taking care of a family is alot.

If you the wife is not working and he is the only one working. I wouldn´t say shit, sorry. There are women who would love to be in that position in life. But you do you... you both got together due to your personalities anyway. He had to like something about you....

It could be that he wants space to think... what is wrong with him [no fun, loss of passion, feeling of not progressing in life, is this all that he´s working for?]

It could be that he wants someone to understand him better [without coming to some random unintended conclusion besides what he means]

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Honestly this is why successful men cheat... not being understood... not being able to have fun when home [home should be a place of peace, not work. I dont care what you think its supposed to be]

But what ever...
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Nov 24, 2021 - 17:55
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - Virgorohini moon » Anna L
I ask this in sincerity and high curiosity: did he take the vaccine?
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Nov 24, 2021 - 17:42
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » Anna L
Good luck (don´t forget to ask about the time, as precise as possible).

If you don´t like to post it here, you can send it to me in private.
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Nov 24, 2021 - 17:12
General Astrology: My husband has issues!
Sun Sign - TaurusAstro-Seek.com » Anna L
Well, maybe i can´t help much but I have to say some of what you´ve mentioned about him, clicks with me. From my side, I will tell you what makes ME feel disconnected from the people around me (even those I care for and love), but bear in mind please that, well, I´m single and things might be different for people in relationships and marriages. So, my reasons might be any of:

1. Being unappreciated.
2. Having so much expectations from others and the world (it´s wrong but, it´s hard).
3. Maladaptive Daydreaming (it´s debated if it is a real issue or just symptom, but it´s there).
4. Having ambitions beyond the limits (of the body and capabilities).
5. Sometimes, Retinitis Pigmentosa (a genetic disease of the eye which I have) plays a role in my depression cycle.
6. Not feeling understood (even for the simplest things) by those close to me.
7. Being worn out by caring so much and not seeing anything in return (this is connected to #1 really) - Even though some people say if you love, you would give out of yourself for love´s sake without assumptions of having anything in return. I´m not asking for anything in return in my case, but some appreciation at least.
8. In my family and at home, I get opposed a lot. So most of the time, I keep things to myself and I stopped participating in anything related to the problems of the people of the house.
9. Getting older and failing in relationships (but of course this is for me as I´m single).
__________

Now, I don´t know where your husband stands, and probably in all of that mentioned above do not apply to him. But maybe something clicks with you.

Do you have his exact time of birth and location? I´m interested in checking his 6H, 8H and 12H.
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