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Are Cancers evil or nice..?
October 26, 2020 at 08:31 (UT/GMT)

Are Cancers evil or nice..?



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November 19, 2020 at 18:12


(As I have a loaded 4th house.)

November 9, 2020 at 14:10

Cancers are wonderful souls!


November 9, 2020 at 13:35

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I´ve met some very mean Cancers, and yes more mean ones.

November 9, 2020 at 11:13


November 5, 2020 at 16:43

save yourself the troubs, I´m a Scorpio rising
Pisces may cry and write in their journals. Pisces seems peaceful; that´s because the thought of vengenance is soothing as we mentally orchestrate your downfall by artistic means that will surely destroy your reputation

November 4, 2020 at 10:58


November 4, 2020 at 10:40

"He´s definitely the more emotional one of the two of us.... He´s very thick skinned somehow too though,
"Our Gemini son is absolutely hands down the biggest fuss maker!"
Who would you say is the most easily triggered and/or argumentative, cancerians or gemini? And which is generally more easy going? Do you think that the thick-skinned appearance is a facade or genuinely he´s not bothered

November 4, 2020 at 10:15

Pick your sun sign: ANY sun sign...but their moon is in Scorpio / 8th house with harsh aspects to Pluto/Jupiter/Mars/Venus/Neptune and....

November 4, 2020 at 10:07


In defence though perhaps Scorpio is worse..?

November 4, 2020 at 09:55


November 4, 2020 at 09:53

I´m not reading through thread, just sharing my thoughts. Cancer Sun/Asc/Saturn. I know Cancer peeps. Ruled by the Moon I am.
According to the FBI we are dangerous as we are the sign that commits the most violent crimes: https://www.oneindia.com/india/…
Bottom line? Ruled by the moon. Emotions. We are the most sensitive signs in the Zodiac, ergo, with bad aspects we can be the most notorious. But most of us love you to death and just want to take care of you and bake you cookies. You just have to ignore our crab claws occasionally. We are nurturers.

November 4, 2020 at 05:27

He´s definitely the more emotional one of the two of us, he´s a Cancer Sun and Moon! It´s not even close haha. But in a good way, he´s more extroverted and expressive in general. He´s very thick skinned somehow too though, his go-to is always to try and understand people. Waaaay more than me, I´m like that for family and friends but he´s a humanitarian in general by comparison!
I´d say we´re compatible, we´re aggressive enough to make each other better at our professional lives and projects but sensitive enough to know when to lay off and when conflict is worth it. If anything we´re likely too insular as a couple but we hold each other in high regard.
"Afterall they do have much in common I think. Their approaches may be different as has been said but also I think there are similarities, much more than other signs. Perhaps this is the "water" signature.. "still water runs deep" of course until it explodes lol. Or does being a Virgo mean your more sedate and logical in your style?"
When we were younger we were exploders, me more than him, but it was never hostile or volatile in a scary way. We were just expecting the other to "get it" unfairly. Once we figured out cue cards didn´t work we talked about everything and forgot to shut up lol! In that process we definitely learned how to "get it" for real when it comes to each other. Now not much needs to be explicitly said we just still yammer on for fun.
Virgo is big now, I see a lot of the Scorpio ascendant in my youth if that makes sense. I do love study, process, precision, and doing something well. Those things are rewards in themselves now, it´s fun to dork out! I´m good at keeping people´s secrets and not weaponizing them, so when friends lives explode my phone rings. Sedate and logical fit very well now! My husband is definitely the "fun" parent, but I´m the problem sorter, he´s the counselor. Usually! It depends but that´s generally how it goes.
"Also funny how your son is also a mercurial gemini and your daughter the sign that is perhaps known as being the most emotional of the water signs (Although not in a volatile way) Who creates the most fuss in your household if I may ask? 😂 and is there any friction between the "mercurials" and those watery souls?"
Our Gemini son is absolutely hands down the biggest fuss maker! He´s hilarious but I´m pretty sure we´re all waaaay too boring for him LOL! He gets along with all of us and everything but in comparison he´s got a signature style for everything. Big curiosity, big points for style on his end.
He and I get along best I´d say, I enjoy being shown around his interests, enthusiasm and care are big to me even if they aren´t about things I gravitate towards. His Dad and sister can do it in spurts, and he himself can´t yet pretend to care about unshared interests much at all so he seems frivolous in comparison to them.
There´s sibling rivalry friction, but nothing nuts. He does enjoy poking his sisters emotional spots more than is smart though

"I´m not so sure about Virgo.. but apparently geminis can be tempestuous But then also Virgo it must be as is a bit but picking (Although perhaps not all)"
I can be prickly if I´m multitasking and people hinder me, and I do have to watch my delivery when being critical because it can seem pointed. All the stereotypes are true for me the older I get! My son can be a drama queen BUT getting critical and detail oriented is the cure for nonsensical drama or mood swings I swear!
He and I can be much more action oriented together than with our watery counterparts for sure. What´s fun or banter with him would hurt my daughter´s feelings but she´d try to hide it. So I just don´t go there and apologize if I blunder. What´s funny though is she and her Dad can go in on each other jokingly but it´s never ever misunderstood. There´s definitely a mercurial divide but it´s manageable


November 4, 2020 at 04:20


November 1, 2020 at 18:22


November 1, 2020 at 17:57

And your distinctions between Scorpio vs cancer were spot on.


November 1, 2020 at 12:04


November 1, 2020 at 10:09

But also I have included myself in this discussion.. because I am aware of certain potential characteristics I have, although I don´t take them to the extreme
Also as someone else´s example on here was a cancer-scorpio I think that could be a double whammy of sorts. And then of course furthermore there would be more aspects to look at..


November 1, 2020 at 09:43


November 1, 2020 at 09:23

But nonetheless there has been a lot that I have admired about them, if only they would stop going psycho

November 1, 2020 at 09:20


October 31, 2020 at 22:25

but delivered with as much of an emotional backhand as possible...until the end of time!
Wow. You. Nailed. It.

October 31, 2020 at 22:17

Covid has been a helluva learning experience! I´m useless without my habits and patterns, my Gemini son has ascended to a boredom beyond boredom that did bring on an enlightenment of sorts lol. Cancer husband and Pisces daughter though? They´ll be running a Whole Foods and opening the first post-apocalyptic spa and medical services hub should the world end.

"They have it in them, in there somewhere, to fight hard and win.
Tenacity too. You just have to hit the right nerve before you see it come out.
Cancer likes security, and if you threaten that, then you´ll see the fighter come out in them, but like you say, once you get them to that point, they become irrational and know no measure. It´ll be a fight to the death, no quarter asked and none given. Despite all of this coming from an irrational place, just the same they can be quite clear sighted, calculating, and logical in how they go about it, but also cruel and inhumane. Sometimes shockingly so."
Accurate! I felt like a crazy person trying to describe it but that is spot on. I wish it was easier to find that description. Cancers are so often painted in a emo light and hiding "in their shell" when bothered. Touch that security nerve in a way that threatens or offends them and may Cthulu have mercy on your soul!
"Scorps are more about their ego.. if you insult their "I" you can trigger this
response in them, but often as not it´ll be handled in an underhanded, secretive manner, often disgracefully. If you get them riled, Cancer will not shy away from a good old fashioned brawl, right out in the open where all can see it.
Cancer is less concerned with "I" and their image, and more concerned with principle."
That´s a really great distinction between Scorpio and Cancer. Image vs principle and subtlety vs rawness. I´ve never seen a Cancer go full security betrayal super-Sayan, but the few times I´ve seen bombs drop over the years I can totally agree. A Cancer is fine declaring displeasure and intent. They want to teach regret through suffering rather than cause fear or uncertainty. It´s like a parent telling you to "THINK about what you did!" but delivered with as much of an emotional backhand as possible...until the end of time!

October 30, 2020 at 08:46

Scorpio = secretive
Cancer = private
Scorpio = volatile
Cancer = moody
Scorpio = manipulative for "I" things.. selfish things of the ego, personal desires and wishes
Cancer = manipulative for security, family, personal principles (mostly) detached from the "I" ego, more awareness of group needs as above the needs of the personal ego.. Scorpio nature sees this as innate hypocrisy, since the 2 principles in the scorpion mind are fundamentally incompatible.
Marcus Aurelius: "What’s Bad For The Hive Is Bad For The Bee"
Cancer: "What’s Bad For The Hive Is Bad For The Bee"
Scorpio: "I don´t give a fuck about the other bees, if it feels good to ME, then it must be GOOD (in an absolute, universal sense).."
Cancer: My own personal truth is a private truth that guides me in my dealings with others in life
Scorpio: My own personal truth IS TRUTH, and it RULES ME in my dealings with other people in life. Even when my personal truth is wrong, or flawed. I will tolerate no advice or correction from others. That would only sully the purity of my own personal TRUTH. Rather than educate me or refine me, or broaden my horizons, accepting other´s input would only pollute me, personally, and dilute my own pure personal (subjective & fallible) vision of truth.
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