3rd house - how are your neighbours?

September 18, 2020 at 12:44 (UT/GMT)
(Leo) Sunseeker
3rd house - how are your neighbours?
What sign rules you 3rd ?

Curious to know peoples neighbour experiences..

Mine is Aquarius, Ive had many neighbours over the years and made friends with many. To the point of having street parties etc and even worked with one neighbour , but at the same time felt irritated by neighbours to the point I want to live without having any. Ruler in the 12th - isolation. I want to now live in isolation.

Any Aries /mars 3rd housers? Any neighbour wars ?

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September 20, 2021 at 03:49
(Virgo) LotusStar
I have Neptune in Capricorn in the 3rd house... I never thought of it until now, but I´ve had many alcoholics and drug addicts as neighbours!!!
September 23, 2020 at 14:59
(Leo) Sunseeker
Oh wow , so many good neighbour stories.
I’ve actually got Neptune transiting mine and my most recent neighbour was mentally ill. She tried to get extra friendly and I tried to keep her at arms length. Constantly asking for favours and even got me to make her White dress into a wedding dress, then asked me to be witness . I only knew her for a few months . I said yes, while later head butting a wall in regret. The day of the wedding I witnessed more than the wedding .

I witnessed her turn into Godzilla, crying screaming at me as the hair didn’t turn out the way she expected. Then ordering me to clean up the mess she made in the kitchen. I stood there in disbelief , thinking “I’m only your neighbour get me out of here”.

I’m looking to move again soon , hence I was thinking about neighbours. :4:
September 22, 2020 at 02:24
(Pisces) fishscales
I have Jupiter in Cap in the 3rd house, with Sag ruling the 3rd...

Most of my neighbors seem to have been decent folk, with a couple of exceptions:

--Religious extremist neighbors where I was born who wouldn´t let me play with their kid because I wasn´t a Jehovah´s Witness. Actually, only the wife was a religious extremist. The husband just got drunk and sat in the basement, and watched "The Shining" incessantly. The wife also had way too many cats. Like 12-13 or something. Place always stunk like cat piss. When I got a little older, their daughter (who was 2 years older than me) introduced me to the facts of life behind my shed.

Witness that.

--Years later, when I was in my late teens, I had another neighbor who was a raging alcoholic and used to vacuum her floors at 3am while listening to Bad Company.

What any of this means in an astrological context, I have no clue.
September 22, 2020 at 01:44
(Taurus) IIyyaarr13
:160: in third house was strange and weird, however that was :178: when :160: is whipping inside of :159:s orbit.
:159: in third house can mean mentally ill neighbours! That is NOT!! a transit with me, but natal.
:152: in third house, neighbours likenable to relatives!
True :163: and Mean :163: and the rock by the same name all in third house, safer to stick to the first ten planets!
September 21, 2020 at 21:14
(Scorpio) Aiax66
Hi, virgo mars in 3rd house. I´ve never had good exp with neighbours, I´m at war with my current perfectionist neighbours... but I shared my room with 4/5 different guys during the university and always got a good relationship with them. I´d prefer to not have neighbours, although I´d like to share my house with somebody.
September 21, 2020 at 17:14
(Aquarius) nikkia » rohini moon
Life is entertaining !

I left out how I dealt with the Peeping-Tom landlord... :61: and I´m not telling - but I got him good ! Not without messing with him BAD first :21:

Side note: As an Aquarian, I am a quiet neighbor who enjoys PEACE and although I will lend a helping hand if needed, I mind my own business.

Strong FENCES make good neighbors. If not, out comes the bat! :47:

(Moon in the 3rd, too. Nuff said)
September 21, 2020 at 15:05
(Taurus) LollyblueKeti
Aquarius. I have Saturn there also. Sometimes I love them to the point we are like a family, and there are really dark times when I hear them all the time, they are loud, noisy and I can´t stand them.
September 21, 2020 at 03:56
(Sagittarius) Madam Destini
Sag rules my 3rd! And my 3rd is a block party in and of itself!!
Forgive me for responding about more than just my neighbors.

I have Mercury, Uranus, Saturn, and Neptune all chilling in my 3rd. Sun also just one degree shy of my 3rd house cusp, so I sometimes feel the effects of the sun as if it were in my 3rd as well.
I have my 3rd house ruler (Jupiter) is Rx in the 8th.
My 12th house ruler is in my 3rd so my "hidden enemies" can be hiding in my 3rd house matters. Neighbors/Siblings. No worries I keep both at a distance! For the most part. lol Also, my siblings sometimes consume WAY too much of my energy and my own life suffers as a result (self undoing?).
Also, having too much weighing on my subconscious definitely effects my communication as well, another aspect of Mercury (12th ruler) being in my 3rd.

Most of my neighbors are retired (saturn) and most are family with one another and I am an outsider to them so they communicate (mercury?)
They were all more friendly than I appreciated at first but they backed off quite a bit with time.
Most of my neighbors belong to one of two families with just a couple outsiders in a grand 14 house block. I have met but am not close to any of my neighbors. One of my neighbors as well as the people we bought our home from are German immigrants (sag energy possibly?).
***Important addition -- part of my yard floods and holds water! - This is definitely a characteristic of having Neptune in the 3rd and mine being conjunct my IC brings the water of Neptune really close to my home. (My sister shares this placement and this issue with her home - highly recommend flood insurance for those with this placement).

My long time favorite friend was my neighbor when we met and we have ended up being neighbors a few times over our years growing up. I think that is all I have to contribute.
September 21, 2020 at 02:53
(Virgo) rohini moon
My third house is Capricorn, and I´ve usually had very helpful neighbors, since I was a kid - and just generally good people. Good jobs, hardworking, but never became nosey or got in anyone´s business, minded their own.

Only time I do recall anything off, was that one wife beater across the street, who got the cops called on him, once, I believe, that was it.
September 21, 2020 at 02:48
(Virgo) rohini moon » nikkia
I´ve also had a landlord and a neighbor who were both creepy Peeping-Toms.

I chased away the peeping neighbor with a baseball bat. He avoided me and my windows after that.

Oh my, Nikki :61: :61: you sound like you´ve had your fair share of derelict neighbors... I kind of love the " crazy neighbor" stories. Not sure why, I guess just find them entertaining. :4:
September 21, 2020 at 02:34
(Aquarius) nikkia
Aries 3ed house here.

I´ve had some very interesting neighbors. When I say ´interesting´ I mean ´crazy´ and ´aggressive´ and not fit for polite society.

From a mentally ill junkie to psycho ex-convict. These two ´sweethearts´ caused neighbor Wars. One died. The other was legally removed.

There was the Neo-Nazi, Hitler sympathizer, sadistic asshole.
(He had a stroke and ended up in diapers with his tongue hanging out, drooling on himself.)

There was a cocaine dealer who only dealt kilos. She was cool, but
I was relieved when she moved. She´d stop by my place for morning coffee sometimes. We lived on top a nightclub. 1980´s crazy times.

I´ve also had a landlord and a neighbor who were both creepy Peeping-Toms.

I chased away the peeping neighbor with a baseball bat. He avoided me and my windows after that.

I´ve also had some great neighbors, too. Some were protective types.
A few cops, an FBI agent, and some other neighbors who had enough firepower to arm a small country.
September 19, 2020 at 22:03
(Taurus) Astro-Seek.com » Asteroid #448
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Whoops.. Forgot to add. I have 4 signs in aquarius in natal chart, my asc in gemini in another, or aquarius. I am still seeing other charts. Lots of air signs/also jupiter in virgo, my chart ruler. so my mercury is the most exaggerated, big on communication def.
September 19, 2020 at 21:52
(Taurus) Astro-Seek.com
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Hey sunseeker, sincerely hope none of my neighbour´s read this. #anonymous :-()

I do like people (im a people´s person) but i dont like random visits from family, and neighbours.. im dressed like a gangster/stripper/homeless or a hippie at home and i hate being caught looking unpresentable.

I love talking to older folk because they´re so witty and their childhood stories are wiiiild! hahaha. im pretty sure im a crappy neighbour.. I NEVER visit, or see them or know anyone´s names but everyone I see I do talk to, i can have hour conversations and not know names :4:

Im very specific about what/who really gets my time.. Not in a haughty way but neighbors usually bond over talking common issues, neighborhood, personal lives.. And other neighbour´s. Its okay once in a while vent blah blah blah, or constructive talk then its okay but when it´s the idle topic, and the only entertainment, then i am literally bored sick,

so yes, i am a criminal neighbour. Inside my gates and always in my room. :4:
September 19, 2020 at 18:53
(Scorpio) Promethean_Soul
Mine is also in aquarius. I have very good relationship with neighboors. From children to elder people , venus in libra in 11th house has good effects on that. :1:
September 19, 2020 at 12:13
(Pisces) N_thecat
I have Virgo on the cusp of 3rd house...Most of my neighbours are calm and live ordinary lives...They are not interested in what other people do as long as you respect their rules...These are usually hard-working people, this is one side of Virgo and the other side is about order/service - we are only interested in our neighbors if we can do something for everyone´s sake as a community and I notice that in every place where I lived.

With Virgo on the cusp of 3rd house I see the rule "Live and let live" :4:. So I live in rather peaceful neighbourhood.

But sometimes when I think about my neighbourhood I see some connection between my 3rd and 4th house and it´s not good... :8:

And ruler of my 3rd house (Mercury) is in 8th house... :25:
September 19, 2020 at 11:38
(Cancer) Anikey
My 3rd is in Capricorn and my neighborhood is like a geriatric unit :61: it used to be even more so especially when we first moved in almost 20 years ago.

My Saturn is in Leo and I love socializing with my older neighbors and ignore the younger ones. I am so good at old people talk... Just yesterday I spent about 30 minutes talking to my an old lady standing on her balcony, she was telling me about how she spent a month in the hospital - I noticed she wasn´t around. I greet everyone every morning, spend some time chit-chating. I miss having grandparents and they are my substitute :1:
September 19, 2020 at 09:39
(Taurus) Astro-Seek.com
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Uranus in Libra usually gives me unusual neighbors time to time. I´ve had times where I have had mentally impaired neighbors, child abuse, domestic violence, different cultures, thieves, different social classes. Kind of goes with the North Node Aquarius.

There´s times where I´ve lived in neighborhoods with the elderly (Saturn in Taurus and Moon) and usually women sitting on the porch gossiping about the neighborhood.
September 19, 2020 at 05:28
(Virgo) sunflowerdj
Scorpio. I was close with my neighbors when I was young. Now that I´m older, I´ve moved to different neighborhoods and have at least known 1 of my neighbors. Friendly, nice people.
September 19, 2020 at 00:08
(Taurus) IntoTheVoid
Capricorn rules my 3rd. I´ve never really been close to my neighbours... but they´re usually older and work a lot. Neptune and Uranus are there......................
September 18, 2020 at 16:22
(Leo) Anni23 » Sunseeker
Oh yes.. that is a really weird thing for them to do though 😮

The home is my "zone" or natural habitat. But in all seriousness aswell I think all these aspects combined probably makes things more difficult to make friends. And I don´t even know if libra ascendants are always as sociable therefore, although I can be at other times too. But then I have other placements which contribute further (moon/mercury) *sigh..

Also being a Leo too, but then my mercury is in Cancer 😣
September 18, 2020 at 14:51
(Leo) Sunseeker » Anni23
Haha funny 😂

Would you prefer to not have neighbours though? Being that your ruler is in the 12th. I use to dislike neighbours knocking on my door at random times.
September 18, 2020 at 14:01
(Leo) Anni23
Sag. Yeah studied anthropology. & force people at parties to discuss philosophical perspectives of their lives (jking, sort of)
Yes the ruler of my 3rd is the 12th too though..

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