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TimeSciences I can understand how you feel, the public can be cruel to those who ´have a heart´ for people! Coming from a direct sales background, the most difficult thing to realize is embodied in the hackneyed saying:´Don´t take it personal!´ It can be even more difficult when one´s livelihood is invested in the success of each sale. For example, newer salesperson spending a few hours to drive to the potential client´s appointment, then more hours with presentation & being ´led on´ to the very moment when there is every confidence the potential client will sign (& then they don´t no matter how many more ´closing questions´ are asked) and knowing that because of this, the salesperson´s personal finances can be strained even more during a ´dry spell´ unless additional opportunities can be generated because they are operating on a ´commission only´ basis. The potential client who refuses to sign often is completely clueless of the situation this may cause for the salesperson, but should they? Answer: Unfortunately, No! Because ´The Customer is (supposed to be) Always Right´ and ´Buyers are free to choose´ it´s ´just the way it is´ & sometimes it really sucks!
Being a long term twitter.com user leads me to suggest giving a short response & if your activities on this forum are to refine your application of Astrology practices, I would not expect anything more from what you share. If you are doing Astrology as a business though, provide a short evaluation if possible & provide a link to your website that clearly shows your fees with explanation of products/services provided even quantifying approximate number of pages for Astrology reports.
In closing, ´hope this helps even if it hurts for you right now!

Leo Moon » fishscales I should have also said I get mad and rude and mostly regret it.

Though Sometimes some pointed words are necessary.

Good manners , being a good host or guest, and being aware of the people in one’s surroundings just help life flow more peacefully.

I guess the Saturn element of Aquarius is showing in me with this traditional side.

fishscales » Leo Moon There´s definitely something to be said for old-school values isn´t there?

Nowadays, with the advent of the internet, everyone comes up with their own rules of engagement, and most of them are poor and/or lazy.

Scoring one for tradition here.

Sunnyshadow Hmm, I think maybe these people read what you wrote, so why be upset? I get wanting to be thanked or at least recognized, but forums and social media are often different than real life encounters. Sometimes there are several replies, maybe some peoples replies resonate more. It doesnt mean your response was bad. It could have been the best response. Or maybe you were the only one to reply and still get ignored. Oh well. Dont reply to them anymore if it bothers you. In that sense it may be more like real life encounters. Ignore the people that dont respond. Or heckle them. I would suggest small steps. Dont go to great lengths to help a total stranger if you expect something in return. Or do it and expect nothing.

Leo Moon Good manners are always in order.

I do think most here have them.

This may be an older posting but it is a reminder to be polite, be thankful and be respectful.


Especially when asking for and receiving help.

I know my Mother would not stand for me exhibiting bad manners, she may have passed but She still keeps me in line.

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This is very old topic, but anyway. I am not giving that out anymore, alike you. Good decision! Some even deleted topic or their account. So why even bother to reply them?? Well, it´s just an astrology forum and hobby social network. Reliability of people here very low. Take it easy. :3 I remember that arrowhorse was telling me that I am a giver, and he was himself too. He just reduced that crap long ago. I was just not listening myself to do the same. You are great yourself.

Natalie1997 I 100% agree, people asking you to analyse their chart and I´m not a pro so I researched for ages for them and get left on read! Then ask them if they read and they´re like yeah, no thank you or anything, I don´t know if it is my Libra rising mixed with my upbringing but I have an excessive need to be polite when someone even tells me a little about myself!

Thundersoul The lines that connect paths composed of truth , decompose by time, misunderstanding, lies, fear. I do not know if the chart will help us on that struggle or salavarion, but as is seems you him her I are the individual and that is something we all share and can’t deny,
But with that true individuality, uniqueness of life the way we choose our own beliefs and experiences of others and how they look for their children and that there was the possibility that the United selfless continued growth and development, that I feel is crucial to the next phase .

detectahead » AdeptMagician It´s all good! There´s just some that have inflated ego´s

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I feel incredibly guilty for whenever I am late to reply to a post. I hope I have not done it to someone by accident!

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isn´t this ironic!

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Always remember that Jesus healed 10 lepers and only 1 thanked him.

Should you expect any more gratitude than what Jesus got?

You must give without the expectation of even a thank you.

Gratitude and a simple note of appreciation have become virtually extinct in our
selfish society!

I understand your frustration, detectahead.

But first you´ve got to get mad.

You´ve got to get up from your computer and walk to your nearest door or
window and yell out, "I´m as mad as hell and I´m not going to take this
anymore"!


You´ll feel much better. Repressed anger is not healthy.

ShriSaiganeshE-jyotish » Petr9 Appreciate the affirmative action on this,
Agree and share the kind of feeling with Detechhead

what if one makes a good case for oneself,
but does not bother to thank or discuss feedbacks;
Merely says thank you in one syllable or sentence and disappears,

or merely ignores your post while responds to many others out of turn!

Says cannot understand your language, grammar, syntax, etc
as if all on forums as these are english scholars sans errors;

May be a code of affiliate conduct and etiquette on the forums
need to be evolved in an educative fashion,
while moderators could intervene and encourage or console
or appreciate quality effort time to time to make the point.

Ramblings for perusal and constructive consideration!


best wishes to all forum members,
and best regards to the moderators,


kshantaram

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I saw you answered a question, and I always appreciate it. I think they can have these behaviors in order to be able to acquire them as easy. Respect is an important event ☺??

detectahead » Petr9 Thankyou Peter for the acknowledgement. I agree and at least you wouldn´t think or feel you wasted your time to honestly answer someone´s post.

Eva1980 It´s very unreasonably to offer someone reading to natal chart, and person is ungrateful, i´m new in astrology and i will be very grateful if you can tell from my chart will i have good aspects to have another child. Wish all the best

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ASTRSEEK Admin, Petr9 Hi detectahead,

I also noticed this "no reply habbit" recently ... and I was actually thinking about adding some rules for this "Read My Chart" section:

OP should write/provide some basic information BEFORE asking:
- what is he/she actually asking for;
- why he/she is asking;

... and it could maybe filter out some OP who came here with "read my chart... (and I will never reply back to you)"