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Sexual Trauma : Awareness
April 20, 2020 at 11:52 (UT/GMT)

Sexual Trauma : Awareness
You may have noticed an increase in my activity on the forum.
This because i am passionate about taboo subjects, healing and teaching/knowledge. (northnode in sagittarius 8th house? lall i guess so)
I have written a full page devoted towards this rarely discussed topic :
> Sexual trauma
> Sexual shame
> Sexual issues
I want to list down the indicators in the birthchart regards these topics.
However i have started the page out of a psychological approach. Easy to read, easy to work with, easy in understanding and maybe even the therapeutic start for those who are in the middle of this, experiencing this or carry the scars with them.
I wrote this out of my own experience, out of the knowledge gained from my own (short) therapy sessions, out of own analysis and need to understand every detail about the human psyche.
The reason i already share this page, is because it may help someone.
I still need to add the astrological part to the page.
It was a bit complex to write on this since it can have various causes, however i do approach it mainly out of childhood abuse or sexual abuse from childhood or toxic loverelationships. But the basics of psychology are present.
www.plutonicdesire.net/…
This because i am passionate about taboo subjects, healing and teaching/knowledge. (northnode in sagittarius 8th house? lall i guess so)
I have written a full page devoted towards this rarely discussed topic :
> Sexual trauma
> Sexual shame
> Sexual issues
I want to list down the indicators in the birthchart regards these topics.
However i have started the page out of a psychological approach. Easy to read, easy to work with, easy in understanding and maybe even the therapeutic start for those who are in the middle of this, experiencing this or carry the scars with them.
I wrote this out of my own experience, out of the knowledge gained from my own (short) therapy sessions, out of own analysis and need to understand every detail about the human psyche.
The reason i already share this page, is because it may help someone.
I still need to add the astrological part to the page.
It was a bit complex to write on this since it can have various causes, however i do approach it mainly out of childhood abuse or sexual abuse from childhood or toxic loverelationships. But the basics of psychology are present.
www.plutonicdesire.net/…


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May 4, 2020 at 15:20



April 22, 2020 at 11:58

Professional help can be a good first step though, just for the sake of letting it out. Just renember that the word "proffesional" means that someone is making money out of it. You can also talk to friends, which is free, and they won´t talk you into taking prescription drugs, which will make the problem worse. Facing your fears is the only way of curing trauma.
My first experiences with sex were rubbish. It was with a cold, unaffectionate girl, and i´m a Cancer with then little self-confidence, so yeah...
I couldnt get it up! I was really depressed because of it.
Then, the "lust of result" got a hold of me, I just wanted to make it work, and was not a second busy with actually enjoying it. I did not realise that then. Luckily I have a big sex drive, so sometimes i was so horny it would work. But then i was glad it was over, Mission accomplished hehehe. The relationship didn´t last long.
Later, i met older, warmer girls who would seduce me thoroughly and make me feel comfortable, and the problem was no more. They actually gave me a lot of confidence. Now I enjoy sex intensely.
I told these things openly to friends, even in a group. They would look at me astounded with big eyes, because of the tabboo you know. But afterwards they would respect me for it. Also they would trust and appreciate me more. It will relief you to tell someone in RL. If you´re anxious about telling it to someone, try to tell it with humour. Some say self deprecation is the highest form of art...
If that´s not an option, at least write it down for yourself and read it back later. It will relief you. Or better, post it on a forum online ;)
Some man will be less fortunate then me I suppose. If thats you, renember that a hooker is an unfriendly name for a supreme sex-therapist :) It´s their job



April 20, 2020 at 18:27

But you pointed it out and i´m glad you did so.
It sure is a struggle.
But light will come to those who want it.
Once you´ve spoken up, you´re heard and the caretakers also help on your path towards the right professional. Atleast, here in Belgium they do so.

April 20, 2020 at 18:07

It took 20 years before I found a CAPABLE Professional - one who could ´go there´
There are VERY few of this caliber. It´s a shame, too.
Seeking help is one thing - seeking CAPABLE help is another.
Just like quack doctors, ´bad´ professionals can do more harm than good.
Not every professional is capable. And, not every capable professional will ´gel´ with you, either.
You need both to really do ´The Work´.
Finding one who Specializes in a ´certain´ area - who you can trust - is key.

April 20, 2020 at 17:37



April 20, 2020 at 17:34

Waw, i find this one really powerful and a true reflection of reality & psychology
I´m glad you got the right person to guide you through it.
I havnt been fortunate in that aspect, never. i experience delay, obstacles and blockades of all sorts when it comes to therapy/professional help. I´ve done most of it myself

April 20, 2020 at 17:33

No, I think nature will always be more intelligent and beautiful than evil. I even think you cannot evolve without taking psychedelics. People thought they can medidate or train their consciousness. No taking psychedelics is like a compuer taking a computer virus to shut down the operating system and experience something else, not go through the gatekeeper. I think either way reality is high bandwith and our brains and upbringing are designed to tone everything down, but nothing is worse than the indoctrination we live in and governments like it that way. Sheep sheep, bééé!


April 20, 2020 at 17:20

I agree that no one can sit forever and ignore the damage inside. From my tiny sphere experience, the brain has a ´protective´ layer. It will or will not not allow you to ´deal´ until you are willing, ready and able. This is why my path came in stages. Stages of awareness. Stages of healing. Rinse and repeat.
There is no better way to face such issues than with a qualified and capable Professional to be a beacon while navigating such dark waters. One such Professional saved my life - although he insisted I did all the work. I might´ve made it to shore - but he led the way. Forever grateful to him for being the "light."

April 20, 2020 at 16:42

It´s true that regards such subjects you have to watch your words and vocabulary,
Someone could be reading this who is still in the stages of denial.
However one can not sit there forever and ignore the damage inside.
For me too, it took 7 months to realize i was in a bad and toxic situation.
It took that long (or short? idk) to realize my actions were navigated through manipulation.
The moment one realizes the toxicity of their environment is also the moment in which the doors for healing open. Something i wish upon every victim/survivor of any kind of abuse, is that they may find self-love and healing.
Seeking professional help is a HUGE step, and i remember the support of the people near me being of HUGE importance in finding the courage for wanting to heal.
Some people don´t have loved ones, or people they trust. and to those too i hope my page can reach them, in which i want to support & encourage them to say yes to ´i want to get out of this dark place´ .
Thank you for your kind words, i appreciate it enormously :)

April 20, 2020 at 16:31

I´ve got NN and Uranus Rx in the 8th - so, yeah. I´ve had to deal with such issues over the course of a lifetime - in varying stages of awareness and healing.
Sexual trauma /shame are rarely topics for ´polite conversation´ which only serves to keep this very important subject in the shadows. Slowly, more light is being shed on sexual trauma and shame. Hopefully, this will continue until we all become more enlightened.
It takes bravery to approach this subject - whether privately or openly. It takes guts and balls to do it publicly, imho. Good work !!!
If I can help in any way - I will.
I look forward to your future findings.

April 20, 2020 at 15:36

Well i don´t know shit about drugs actually. i dont have experience in that field, but sure if you like to use those recreational, go ahead.
I relate that the social distancing is getting heavy at this point.
Tho i also have to admit that i absolutely enjoy being home in true isolation anyway, in fact im even kinda bothered that i´m never really home alone anymore during this corona virus.
better times will come :)

April 20, 2020 at 15:16


April 20, 2020 at 15:15


April 20, 2020 at 13:44


April 20, 2020 at 13:39




April 20, 2020 at 13:21

It´s still up to the reader of my website to do what they want with the information.
well said about ;the risk and reward in one´ lal thats your aries energy i guess. courageous :)
T Mars in 8th, EPIC. i had it end of last year. best transit i ever had (not regards sexlife) enjoy your mars in 8th moment. great time to dive DEEP

April 20, 2020 at 13:12


Btw my Mars is transiting my 8th house.

April 20, 2020 at 12:57

I also wanted to mention that spreading awareness to help victims feel more accepted, is not an act out of naivity or a pat on the back "hey man, cool, u not alone" but a kind push in the back to recognize one´s trauma´s and to realize it´s needed to take action.

April 20, 2020 at 12:48

My best friend from elementary school would piss his pants regulary when he was staying overnight. He was very anxious about it and I had to sweat to keep it a secret, for me he was my best friend so I didn´t even think about it. He had such cold parents that I don´t wonder but funny to see, him being the joker and Mr. popular, had to have every girl and even succeeded doing just that. Yet he would have this ´trauma´. Later I found out he was not only opposite Sun (Libra) but Moon (scorpio) too! He was a great friend but we lost touch when I moved to Prague.

April 20, 2020 at 12:41

Glad to have support in me wanting to support others :)
I believe this stigma will be broken one day, humanity is slowly awakening, mostly.

April 20, 2020 at 12:36

I feel that in my soul. I can’t wait till the stigma is broken. Posts and websites like yours definitely give hope for that!

April 20, 2020 at 12:34

I have written about seeking professional help on this page, we think alike ;)
I do not want to be put responsible for anything bad happening to others, i only want to support, help, guide and raise awareness for anything thats too painful to openly talk about.

April 20, 2020 at 12:23


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