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What is repelling men in my chart
September 7, 2019 at 16:55 (UT/GMT)

What is repelling men in my chart
I´m trying to see what is it about me that is so off putting to men?? Is there something in my chart that can let me know. having a very hard time getting any form of relationship going. It´s like i´m a man repellent


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May 17, 2021 at 06:34

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I think is it is not about who you attract, but who attracts you, because in our worlds, it is never about others, it is always about us.
Jupiter stands for our ideal partner and being in 11th house Aries in conjunction to Chiron, is making you somehow resistant but in the same time attracted to that Aries energy that you generally do not understand quite well because of that Lilith in the same house and sign that represents our blind spot.
In your chart Jupiter is functionally ruled by Mercury that is in 9th Aqua house together with Venus, making you actually seek for feminine, spiritual and intelligent partner that has very broad view. This does not have to be a woman at all, but it definitely needs to be a person that is good-looking, intelligent, spiritual, nice and communicative.
On the other hand, in archetype mode Jupiter is ruled by Mars and this is actually just giving you impression that you need self-assertive, dominant man because of that AC Mars.
These two things are making that dissonance between what is that you need in reality and what you feel you need in that archetype level of self, represented by old, tradition ruler.
So, looking further at your Jupiter person chart, that reviles more in detail, what kind of person would make you develop trust and love, it again looks like you need good-looking, very spiritual person that has poorly (or perfectly and healthy) developed ego and self-esteem but great diplomat skills. This person should also be serious and responsible.
Pisces and all 3 earth signs are the most welcome.
In Jupiter persona it is very clear that dominant, masculine Arieses, because of that Aries Sun


Your Jupiter persona chart (the chart of your patner) attached below.


May 17, 2021 at 03:15

An excellent observation that has wide application Rosincvist.

May 17, 2021 at 01:56

We want what is clear and cut´ndry, but that is not always the way of things!

September 8, 2019 at 15:52

With aqua Venus I would also consider to look inside me and ask myself why do you want relationship? Do you really want or need one? What have I done for those to break (it´s always mutual, regardless what you think), what´s mine contribution there? because you may do it unconsciously because in reality you don´t want them that much.
Also thinking I want masculine men - how do you see masculine and feminine men? Is that something that yo believe that you need, or cultural thing or...? I reality, same as you at first show your masculine side, men can only show that too but being little kitties behind that facade.

September 8, 2019 at 14:58


September 8, 2019 at 14:40


September 8, 2019 at 14:18

However, Venus is overlooking Mars by triangle, so I think this is definitely resolvable and you´ll deal with it and be fine, as long as you confront these issues.
So my suggestion is either get in touch with your feminine side a bit more or, if you don´t want to do that, seek out more feminine men. This latter will be attracted to you.
This is a 7th house profection year FOR YOU, until your next birthday, so issues around relationships, mostly of the romantic kind, are in the fore-front. It´s a good time to be asking this type of question and doing something about it.
Good luck!

September 8, 2019 at 13:53

Someone gave me this advice once and it was quite correct. I had to re-invent myself, the way I interacted with others in a more positive and loving way.
https://astromatrix.org/Horoscopes/…
https://astrologyking.com/moon-squa…

September 8, 2019 at 13:51



September 8, 2019 at 13:01

With mars in my first house. Could that be why I have such a hard time getting into relationships or attracting men? My sister and mother don´t have this issue.

September 8, 2019 at 12:57


September 8, 2019 at 12:22

Sun is in the upper half of the chart so naturally you probably had some hard times with relationships during Uranus in Pisces from 2004-2011 and 2011-2018, because of Uranus in Aries being in the 11th house which is a relationships house.
Uranus usually turns the house inside and out in multiple ways for your evolution, growth, and maturation.
You have Libra Pluto in the 5th and transforming your relationships in dating and sexual attraction.
Understand this all activated with transits to learn something about yourself and relationships.
Uranus in Aries was in opposition of Libra Pluto. Now you have Aries in Chiron probably in opposition of Libra Pluto at some point to heal your inner wounds. You’re also in your Aries in Chiron Return depending on the degrees.
Libra/Aries is relationships.
Saturn in Cancer opposition Saturn in Capricorn
You’ve been going through a lot of passages of rites like the rest of us.
Mars is in Gemini and the boyfriend or masculine in the first house. You might be to forceful with how you communicate with them and maybe have to see how your communication style has a cause and effect through what vocab you use. Maybe the way you say it.
Jupiter in Aries expands your Mars energy and it may be you keep wanting to be number one in the 11th house when you’re other people and the leader, where Aries in Chiron keeps reminding your ego, to allow others to share your space and have attention too.

September 8, 2019 at 09:56



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