Libra in Venus

July 26, 2019 at 02:47 (UT/GMT)
(Virgo) EarthsGoddess
Libra in Venus
I just recently got out of a long term relationship... for the third time. I think it’s only been long term because I continue to compromise and stay in relationships I know don’t suite me from the jump. I know a few more placements in my chart have to do with this but.. do any sun libras or libra moon/Venus signs feel they have difficulty leaving a relationship or situation w/ someone who’s so attached to you.? All this done in order to not “rock the boat” & hurt their feelings all while you’re suffering inside.???

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March 2, 2023 at 14:10
(Capricorn) Tajči3 » Nadya Lavand
Hey i liked your analyses. What would you said about my love life? :1: :1: :1:
March 2, 2023 at 14:08
(Capricorn) Tajči3
I believe the problem is in Mars on Descendant in Cancer and Moon as the ruler in square Venus. So heavy aspects. Also you have nice Venus in Libra and you are capable od having good relationship but the Universe doesnt give it to you. I wish you luck in the future :1: :1:
August 6, 2019 at 12:56
(Scorpio) MelodicBlu
Hell fakking yea, im a venus libra and i am a pro in staying in relationships that exhaust the fuk out of me. Its indeed bc u tend to compromise, and seek balance for the sake of harmony whether u r happy or not. Its a challenge for sure to have sich placement. Eventho u know damn well the person is not yor ideal fit, u just want the relationship to succeed bc u desire love so much and so deeply. Venus im libra, from my experience it means that a relationship must work out, bc u dont want to go through breakup, u dont want yet another relationship, u dont want to give your body again to another partner bla bla..
August 6, 2019 at 12:47
(Virgo) Nadya Lavand

:154: in :177: can´t damage your relationship. It´s very strong and benefic planet. You are quite a romantic person in love and you often idealize your partners. But Venus is not related to the 7th house and husband significator.

When we analyze love life the most important to select the marriage significators. These planets describe your partners and the quality of relationships.

In your chart:

1) :155: will affect the most as the planet in the 7th house.
2) Then :152: - as the ruler of the 7.
3) Then :151: - as the general significator of husband.

The main astrological reason why you don´t leave toxic relationship is :152: :172:! The fixed signs ( :172: :175: :178: :181:) act very often like that. In general :152: is the most damaged significator. It´s peregrine, in the 8 house.

:155: is in fall in :174: It can attract difficult partners with toxic behaviors. Also Mars provokes quarrels and conflicts. Planets in fall feel like they are not taken seriously, not listened to, disrespected, so they can crave attention, or act in ways to pull the spotlight onto them.

:151: is the best significator here. There is :192: :157: of course, but anyway Sun is better than Moon and Mars! it means if you want to improve your love life, choose a partner according to your Sun!

For example - :176:, :175: or :171: (ASC or Sun sign), with good Sun in the 1 house. Sun in the 9th house - so he could be a foreigner or he works as a teacher, priest or lawyer. You can meet him abroad or during the trip. Or in the Internet. And so on.

Also, you can use good :151: transits in your chart to find the auspicious days for dating.

In general this year you have difficult transit :199: :194: :152: (ruler of your marriage house). Uranus makes relationships very unstable. Plus :157: :160: :162: transit your 1 house. It´s not an easy period. You can feel stuck, depressed. But the next year will be better. When :156: enters in your 1 house and gives you some fresh air. Take a chance in January 2020, when :156: :193: :151:
August 6, 2019 at 06:53
System message: Post has been written by user ginsengqueen, who already deleted profile on this website:
Libra Sun Rising and Libra Venus... which is how I love... naturally our energy is very Goddess essence and Libra is the natural placement of Venus so we are elevated in an exquisite form of love. I think we settle because we are so used to being let down my everything in our life due to the fact that it feel as if others are not as romantically/emotionally/aesthetically in tune as us... like we always had to be the ones to create the vibe of love for others and its just to a point where we want to share love with another human so bad we just compromise...but its really a sign that we need to get more into out power and continue to raise our vibration and BECOME who we want to be with so we attract just that. Good luck, blessings and peace to your heart sister. I´m working on this too :64:
July 31, 2019 at 12:04
(Scorpio) Aiax66
I ´ve got moon and venus in libra. Yes, it´s a torture when I´m not able to leave any sort of relationship... The only "solution" I found is escaping, I´m pretty good at vanishing. It´s a quite stupid and masochistic way to solve the problem, both sides suffer. I still can´t apply this method with some friends who betrayed me.
Have a good day☺
July 30, 2019 at 15:11
System message: Post has been written by user zodicat, who already deleted profile on this website:
"do any sun libras or libra moon/Venus signs feel they have difficulty leaving a relationship or situation w/ someone who’s so attached to you.?"

As a Virgo Sun with Libra Moon and Venus, I used to convince myself this was true of myself.

The truth I realized is that it was my own attachment, particularly the fear of solitude that rationalized it, that stopped me from rocking my own personal boat of having to come to terms with developing a healthy relationship with myself that kept me in and revisiting long-term relationships that were unfulfilling.

I used to be focused on the potential of someone else wanting to be in a relationship with me when it came to with whom I would approach affectionately.

Another truth I realized is that the pain of rejection lasts extraordinarily shorter than that of a severed attachment. I discovered that, while the end result wasn´t ideal, living with having seen the possibilities of relationships that weren´t meant to be by following my own heart instead of listening to others´ came much easier and was much more fulfilling than chasing pipe-dreams rooted in fantasy and deceit.

If I´m to suffer, it´s better to do so with myself where I can be honest about it with myself and do something about it without anyone else´s approval, rather than to drag someone else into the quandry of my own indecision as to what it is that I truly want out of life and relationships with others.
July 26, 2019 at 05:35
(Pisces) fishscales » Leo Moon
"Don’t want any self fulfilling prophecies."

No. Definitely something to be cautious of when practicing astrology on any level.

Of course, it can happen from just thinking too much too :23:
July 26, 2019 at 05:23
(Aquarius) Leo Moon » fishscales
I think it’s best . Don’t want any self fulfilling prophecies.
July 26, 2019 at 04:23
(Pisces) fishscales » Leo Moon
Yeah I´d never make picks based solely on astrology

I refused to check out my wife´s chart because I didn´t want any prejudices and just wanted things to happen organically

Obviously knew she was a Capricorn though.

When I finally looked at the rest of it a few years in, I was not surprised by alot of it though.
July 26, 2019 at 03:50
(Aquarius) Leo Moon » fishscales
Really I just use my instincts and intuition.

The astrology is interesting, but as I have seen with can be dead wrong as far as what makes a successful relationship.
July 26, 2019 at 03:30
(Pisces) fishscales » Leo Moon
"Then we both care about the other and it all stays in balance"

I really think it all depends on individual factors in our charts.

I don´t really do well with the "same energy" thing

Most Libra and Pisces women drive me nuts, and those are my rising and sun signs. Probably because it´s a same energy pileup.

I also have that that crazy Uranus conjunct my Libra ascendant though, which I think wants to knock things off balance more than get them IN balance sometimes...

Of course, what´s important is what works for you, not for me. :37:
July 26, 2019 at 03:18
(Aquarius) Leo Moon » fishscales
ThIs is also why I say I hope to meet another Libra!

Then we both care about the other and it all stays in balance.
July 26, 2019 at 03:16
(Aquarius) Leo Moon » fishscales
I get you too Fish!

Never underestimate or undervalue being Lucky.

I think that’s what happened to me in my last very long term relationship!

Pure luck.
July 26, 2019 at 03:14
(Aquarius) Leo Moon
I have a Libra ascendant and Yes.....I find myself making accommodations too often.

I am pretty simple in my own needs and my Aquarius makes me tolerant and open minded , so I find myself mired in my partners complexities and drama.

I am definitely thinking about how to change this and have more peaceful and satisfying relationships.

So Yes....I get ya! :1:
July 26, 2019 at 03:14
(Pisces) fishscales
"do any sun libras or libra moon/Venus signs feel they have difficulty leaving a relationship or situation w/ someone who’s so attached to you.? All this done in order to not “rock the boat” & hurt their feelings all while you’re suffering inside.???"

Well, how can I put this...



I´m a Libra rising, Venus in Taurus, Venus in the 7th house...with Mars in Taurus to boot.

I can relate to what you´re talking about to no end.

I´ve been in two relationships that lasted way too long because of exactly the things you´re describing: not wanting to hurt the other person or "rock the boat", except in my case it was made even worse because of a generous helping of Pisces romantic idealism and self-delusion.

Now, all of this happened between 15-20 years ago, but the tendencies you´re describing were all there.

Unfortunately, I can´t give you any advice about it, because I don´t think I ever really arrived upon a solution.

Fortunately... Very fortunately... I don´t have this kind of relationship with my wife, and I never did... But that´s not because I learned something or changed something within myself.

I´m not really sure what happened. :63: Maybe I just got lucky.

The only thing I can say is, keep your partners needs in mind, but don´t be afraid to go after what you need in a relationship.

Basic pitfall of Libra: too much is done with the other person in mind while ignoring their own needs, leaving the Libra feeling unfulfilled, and eventually resentful.

Does not work out well for either side.

Gotta balance that Aries/Libra polarity between self and other.

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