Lessons to learn?

September 17, 2023 at 19:58 (UT/GMT)
(Taurus) Inne
Lessons to learn?
At the beginning of this year I dated someone and without elaborating too much, it was pretty intense. Instead on posting synastry,… I decided to focus on myself and my own chart and maybe what this relationship had to teach me.

I have :165: :192: Venus, Mercury and Sun in natal chart. Chiron currently transiting 7th house. Solar eclipse 20th of April (day we broke up suddenly) in 7th house.

I was wondering if any other aspects,… can shine a light on the lessons I had to learn? As a Libra ascendant with Venus in 7th being single is not an easy thing. Maybe I have to learn to be responsible for my own happiness and not want to relate that much? A bit of Anxious attachment style going on here.

I have never been so devastated after a break up, hard to let go but astrology always helped me to put things into perspective and give some perspective, that easier times hopefully are ahead. I have read a book about Pluto and lessons we have to learn and I have read that if you do not learn the next hit of certain aspects (not necessarily only Pluto) will be even more relentless. So, just wondering what to focus on.

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September 18, 2023 at 20:05
(Taurus) astral_travel » Inne
Mars in scorpio.

But I can sense people.
September 18, 2023 at 17:36
(Taurus) Inne » astral_travel
Just curious, what in the chart made you think of manipulation?
September 18, 2023 at 17:03
(Taurus) astral_travel » Inne
Let me tell you something about manipulation. You need two (people) for tango. What I mean is that as anger can be active or passive, so can manipulation. It´s just a matter of who takes what rule. Yes, you got the point, but not totally (I refer to the point you made about projecting), I gotta say something about that also, - you don´t have to ´keep´ anything, what you are projecting is unsolved issues, so what you wanna do is self-observation or more correctly self-reflection, and through that - understand what motifs you have repeating itselfs, and come to a solution. Once you are unified with yourself - you no longer have to hide anything, and matters of ´power´ are being replaced by a sincere curiosity to understand and solve the commonality you have with people. We´re all going through the same thing.
September 18, 2023 at 05:17
(Taurus) Inne » astral_travel
I don’t think that the job content is making me want to change, just that I could earn more in the private sector. What I like about my job is that I kind of provide a social service, that I have nice co-workers, that I have a chance to work in an interesting field (labour market subjects),...I love my job, and not planning to change jobs. Has been too much changes already.

Interesting last question, I strongly condemn manipulation. But in general, not specifically now. as a Plutonian person ( with 3 oppositions) I always try to beware aware of the fact that I might be projecting things myself.
And you have to keep the “power” with yourself, not projecting or giving it away. But I don´t consider myself suspicious towards other people, people say I come across as "open" person.

The person I was talking about, I met him through work. I still have weekly encounters with him because of work.
I have a feeling indeed for the first time I could be manipulated in some way, by him. But maybe manipulation is a too strong word.

Instead on focusing on him, I wanted to see what my own lessons were, because I believe these kind of intense people, you meet them for a reason.
September 17, 2023 at 20:58
(Taurus) astral_travel » Inne
What do you like about your job ?
And, what have you considered to do in the private sector ?


I ask so we can have common ground

Btw, Inne, are you condemning manipulation ? What is that subject of manipulation about ?

Just a feeling
September 17, 2023 at 20:44
(Taurus) Inne » astral_travel
Well, that life is far more expensive right now, so I had to make some adjustments in order to be financially okay. But still, I really like my job and I have a great team (as a moon in 6th house I am sensitive to nice work environment) but this is the first time in my life I considered to start working in the private sector to make more money but I am not going to do that. For me the content of the job remains more important than making more money.
September 17, 2023 at 20:38
(Taurus) astral_travel » Inne
In what way is it an issue ?
September 17, 2023 at 20:21
(Taurus) Inne » astral_travel
I work as a mediator, in government.
My relation to money is pretty neutral. Not a penny pincher but not a big spender either. Though since I have been single and moved out money is more of an issue than it used to be.
September 17, 2023 at 20:12
(Taurus) astral_travel
Hi Inne,

I was looking at your chart,
Can you tell me what you do for a living ?
And, what is your relation to money ?


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