Lilith in capri - Discussions, questions

diavolul I would say it is because of the Moon in first house which gives you traits from Cancer sign.

Virgo82 » dani_mae1 Hi Dani

I liked your answer

Some years ago i expected that person, now, after some failed rerationships i feel better alone ...

Thank you for your answer.

dani_mae1 Lilith in Capricorn really is a firecracker once someone seems solid enough for you. You sense insecurities of people in regards to the broad spectrum of success because unfortunately or fortunately (depends if you have embraced your placement or not and own it) ,most Lilith Capricorns don’t ever feel successful or put a huge unattainable goal of what success even means as a way of self sabotage. Buttttt Lilith is how your rebellious hidden qualities can manifest so the astrology that hinders us is also what helps us. Take a moment and define success for yourself and not what others or society told you it should be. And live happy regardless of their judgement in what YOU think is a good life. Rebell that way. And to be frank—most Capricorn Liliths are perceived icy because the person they are being perceived by, either consciously or subconsciously the Lilith native has decided that person would not be safe to be the spicy dominant Zaddy you can totally get with this placement #bdsm lol

Virgo82 » Lost Pilgrim Thanks for helping me understand better.
Some times i take distance from people or reallity, ... Suppouse because its too ugly or hard yo Accept as It is.

Virgo82 » Zephyrin Thanks for helping me understand better. I really have many contradictory aspects.

Zephyrin Yeah, as a person with Lilith in Capricorn in 1H, I feel the same as you do and hear the same from the people in my life.

She is balacing the over-sensitive and absurd traits of my dominant Cancerian side, though.

Lilith stands in your 8H, conjunct SN, means you may have problems opening up to others in general and feel fear and anxiety trusting someone no matter how much you care about and love him/her.

You are a Moon in Cancer, and the Moon conjunct NN. Actually this may give you an hint to solve your problem. NN in Cancer in 1H doesn´t like secrecy and silence very much in contrast to SN in 8H in Capricorn, wants you to express yourself, your feelings and thoughts more and by doing this you may be able to overcome the feeling of coldness which you don´t like in yourself. Your potantial issues related to trust and intimacy may also get solved. Mercury in Libra in 5H square NN in Cancer may force you to do so anyway.

Lost Pilgrim Hint: It´s not because of Lilith in Capricorn. Look at your Venus in Virgo and Saturn in the 5th restricting your happiness/joy.

Also, more detail would be nice so that we can better understand in which situations you feel like ´an ice cube´.