Always cheated on always finding out...still why? - Discussions, questions

lamoon » YRashawn Thank you so much for taking the time and effort to provide me such a thorough insight which is 100% accurate, I recognize myself while reading this!Honestly, some of the behaviors you mentioned come naturally I dont practice them on purpose!At least reading them make me realize what manners and choosing criteria i should avoid from now on!! You are 100% correct about my need to be in a romantic companionship because I always felt I can then express and enjoy myself to the fullest. And maybe that is the reason I am so desperate to find answers..
Yes all of them shared similar qualities with me, social and interpersonal skills, had their way around people, being pleasant and giving..and it was fun and really comfortable being around people vibing the same way you do. I believe i am possessive but they were as well so maybe it was one reason I didn´t expect being cheated on, at least the second time where I found myself misguided as they presented to me and the rest of the world an ethical code that would never allow such behavings. I did put them on a pedestal as to me it was the least they deserved, but the fact that they seemed to feel the same way about me made me believe that they didn´t have to search for something more, as i would have never done, but I guess you can´t judge someone and have expectations based on how you would behave.
Thank you once again for reaching out and pointing these aspects in my chart, helped me realize them even more!

YRashawn Your 7th house of partnerships is in Libra meaning relating to other people on an equal basis is important for you so you will always have a strong need to partner up to balance out your individualistic Aries energy. Interestingly enough, the ruler of your 7th is in your 1st house which means there is a lot of identification with a partner. Do you attract partners that are very similar to you? Are you attracting partners that reinforce how you really feel about yourself? Aries and Cancer have a tendency to stick with what´s familiar or attracting carbon copies of themselves. You may be doing this subconsciously.
Libra is a social sign and with Venus representing your partners, they are socialites and charming. Venus squaring Jupiter in Leo they are insatiable, hypersexual and need ego validation from OTHER PEOPLE (Libra deals with other people). Leo men can be players so you may want to avoid strong Leo energy because they may be amplified by your Jupiter. Do you attract partners with different belief systems than you? Try and start getting a potential mate´s philosophy and views on love before committing.
It is important that you maintain your personal standards for relationships, so you did a great job by dropping people that violate those values. Venus in Taurus in 1st is all about honoring one´s values and standards.
Venus square Saturn can cause much suffering through love and sudden separations because it is in Aquarius. The Aquarius expression is why you felt shocked, blindsided, and betrayed by uncovering the truth. Aquarius deals with all of that. Spiritually you will suffer through love, and this could be due to your own selfishness and seperativeness so you may have to have some tough conversations with yourself. Are you too possessive? Do you attract possessive lovers? Try not to put a partner on a pedestal because when you do Saturn will break that shit up. This is not to say you won´t find true love, it´s just that this area of life is more challenging for you.
Oh, and money, finances, and property will somehow be intertwined in your relationships. Hope this helps!

Iceblu333 » lamoon Even Jupiter (Husband) is in the 5th House with Ketu (Loss)...

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So it is shown in your chart. Glad to have given some kind of hint...

Iceblu333 » lamoon Ok👍

lamoon » Iceblu333 I will keep this in mind regarding Capricorn thank you a lot for checking this out, wouldn´t have made this assumption on my own 🙏

Iceblu333 » lamoon Wait, You have Rahu in Capricorn...

Maybe strong Capricorn then...

Iceblu333 » lamoon Hmmm... maybe you are looking for someone with Aquarius placements...

Maybe Jupiter or Venus in Aquarius...

Or Strong Aquarius placements...

But i could be wrong...

lamoon » Iceblu333 Unfortunately yes..

Iceblu333 » lamoon Wait, Aquarius was bad for you as well?

lamoon » Iceblu333 I just keep wondering how many lessons will I have to learn and if it is a story that will just keep repeating itself, as these placements all in 5th are permanent and not for example something caused due to a transit. Regarding Leos, 100% true they are like a magnet to me, all my short term or long term attachments were always strong Leos. And both of these 2 guys had Leo, Aquarius and Virgo elements highligthened. I think I have to stay away from this triplet leo/aquarius/virgo although we get along it proves to be a disaster in my case.

lamoon » Morena_Lu This is so inspirational and at the same time very realistic! Thank you for quoting! I definetely must see this movie!

Iceblu333 You have Chiron (lessons) and Ketu (loss) and Moon (emotional attachment) in the 5th house... that could cause loss and lessons regarding "romantic" relationships.

Also the men you date could be very Egotistical because planet Jupiter (male partner/ possible husband) is in Leo; the original ruler of the 5th house...

So you could have lessons in regards to egotistical romantic partners... and loss from Egotistical Romantic Partners due to Ketu being in the 5th House.

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The Problem is not you. I think you just have lessons to learn about Men and egos in regards to dating and "romantic" relationships.

FYI; 5th house relationships differ from 7th house relationships.

5th house being the house of Romance (Sexual Partnerships) and 7th house being of long term Partnerships...

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I would look for a Partner that is more "Off the beaten path" or Authentic*/Aquarius like* or 11th house like...

That could help,

Ttyl.

Astro-Seek.com » Morena_Lu System message: Post has been written by user Sacrecoeur, who already deleted profile on this website:
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Beatiful response!

Morena_Lu » lamoon You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean in a drop..

When you realise some things, like you will in this year..it will be easier for you. It is like a spiritual awakening for you. You are 123 code, I am 213, for me it happened last year.

It is some numerology system, with your code you can have a great family and everything you wish for, you should not worry. Also, when we talk about love, I think people make one mistake- we expect a lot, expectations can "kill" us, be just the best version of yourself, give love and be happy in the present moment, every moment of your life is important, not just when you share your life with significant other. For you I have one animated movie, for a moment imagine that you are on his place, what you would change or not, would you live the same life as you have now ..or you will change something?Maybe you are already happy enough..

"I heard this story about a fish. He swims up to this older fish and says, "I´m trying to find this thing they call the ocean." "The ocean?" says the older fish. "That´s what you´re in right now." "This?" says the young fish. "This is water. What I want is the ocean."

lamoon » Morena_Lu Glad to hear we share similar qualities and you are doing just fine! Gives me so much hope!! Couldn´t agree more that our partners are mirroring us so i definitely need of changing patters! Also proud for the male energy, I feel it and others acknowledge it as well but i didn´t know it was associated to my code or which was my code! Thank you for this insight, it is brand new information I am checking in already!

lamoon » Leo_Ness Inevitably all that history made me greatly question myself but point taken!

Morena_Lu This year is good for you to learn more about yourself and spirituality, take more time to know yourself. Change patterns in your behaviour, something in you is attracting them, partner is our mirror, we must change what we project. Do you "cheat" yourself, are you totally honest in all areas of your life? Just some things to think about.. Everything is energy, just by your code I see that you have strength of a man, you like to help others a lot, and you can be really fun and joyful, take more care about yourself, treat yourself as a queen, and one real king will come for you. 123 is your code, similar to mine, so..I can really understand you, although I didn´t have same experience as you.:))

Leo_Ness » lamoon You´re welcome.

I just need to share one more modern saying related to this topic.

"Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes."

lamoon » Leo_Ness Oh, your kind words are truly moving, bringing me tears.. I sadly haven´t studied sidereal, but can picture myself under this light, and it is so relieving to hear that although things turned this way I had good qualities to present..thank you a lot for this it proved great emotional support and food for thought!

lamoon » s81 Indeed I learned about my enemy just disappointed that is was myself all along! Still i will get wiser and more picky from now on i guess!
Clueless about Sedna, thank you a lot for mentioning, I am looking into at the moment, very insightful!

lamoon » Seanfhear Oh I didn´t know that jupiter is identified that way. Looking into it as we speak, thank you so much for pointing out 🙏

lamoon » Kisses Thank you for the insight, already checking it!!

lamoon » Sacrecoeur Hello sacrecoeur! I am pretty sure you are right, since these were choices that I made in both cases and having the same result only leads to unrecognizable subconscious patterns, although with therapy we haven´t discovered such indications yet..thank you for reaching out, I am working on it, it will take time i know but i want to get to the bottom of this because it is eating me.

Leo_Ness Sidereal, whole sign.

If there is a reason for cheating, I would point to their feeling of inferiority caused by your beautiful Pisces AC Sun that is creating trine to 5th house Cancer Jupiter and Moon and sextile to 11th house Capricorn Saturn, 8th house Libra Pluto also.

You´re loved by many, able to bound, respected, respectful, kind hearted, perfect, loyal partner and they simply cannot pair you at decent level so they probably go to opposite.

s81 Well, now you know that besides how picky you are there is certain unconscious tendency to engage cheating dudes you have the chance to fight against it, that´s a good new in fact, knowing your enemy is the first step to win the battle.
Astrologically speaking, I think in your natal chart that´s expressed by your Venus (ruler of 7th house in Libra, romantic partners, business partners, enemies, etc) conjunct Sedna (who in the inuit myth was cheated) and both forming up a T-Square with Saturn and Jupiter, and a T-Square with Saturn and the Moon.
Good luck with your next boyfriend!