Feeling invisible - Discussions, questions

Astro-Seek.com System message: Post has been written by user -purplegalaxy-, who already deleted profile on this website:
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I have planets in the 12th house as well and I feel the same. I also have Neptune quincunx Ascendant and I think that influences me too. Sometimes it’s scary because it’s like I am invisible. It hurts.

Rosincvist Your geocentric chart and geo./helio. synastry are quincunx city; You have many stirrings to express your inner self!

tomdos Just my two subjective cents:

It would be nice if people specified in their replies what house system they use. You may get very confused with the answers, especially with your place of birth.

I use Regiomontanus and yes, in my opinion it is obvious right away, that your issue has something to do with the huge 12th house. There is a reason why the houses get so big or small in those latitudes. Your 12th house eats 3 whole signs, both Lights, Mars, Venus, Jupiter and Saturn. Rulers of almost all your houses are in the 12th house. Except Pluto ruling your DSC – house of relationships, which, however, is unaspected or aspected very weakly. And your self-confident Uranus.

Your Sun is in Pisces 12th house, it cannot get anymore reclusive and sensitive.

All 4 elements are included in the 12th house. Thats something. It needs to be a theme. Its your life.

12th house may force seclusion upon a person, often against their own will. It can strongly affect the theme of life. In a way, it stresses the need of the soul, no matter what the persona thinks. I think it is your case, from what you say.

Still, it seems you have quite an opinion about yourself. Thats fine, but do not forget it goes both ways. Other people have opinion about you too. There may be a reason they sort of avoid you. You have strong Uranus in home sign, which may have to do with both – your own and their opinion about yourself. Your and their perception may be very different. Also Saturn square Neptune can make you appear insensitive and sort of an „ice queen“. Watch out for that. In the end, however, with that huge 12th house it all may simply be an energetic mismatch. Maybe you simply need the right company.

I would suggest be faithful to yourself no matter the surroundings. If you manage, the right company will come, but it may never be very numerous. I see your big and full 12th house as a very specific potential. Though it may take some time before you truly relate to it. Your happiness may depend on you managing that. Saturn return may have something to with it as well.

s81 I wouldn´t merely associate this perception you have to your planets at 12th house, but to your natal Neptune (who makes things fuzzy, blurry, etc, but also invisible) right on the cusp of your 11th house (groups of people, friends, etc) and also to your 7th house (the identified other, partners of any kind and even declared enemies). Your progressed Mars (currently in your progressed 12th house), traditional ruler of your 7th house, is in square currently with your natal Neptune. Also, your progressed Lilith is currently in your progressed 7th house, and that doesn´t help neither. Besides all this, you can of course overcome this communication problems, your progressed Mercury (currently at your progressed 11th house) is currently in square to your natal Pluto, so it´s time to purify (Pluto) your communication skills (Mercury).

zenobocardo Hi! You are currently transiting Neptune directly over your natal Sun. On January 16th Neptune will make exact conjunction with your natal Sun. After the 16th, this feeling tends to change and disappear, but try to meet people with common thoughts and who have compatibility for deeper conversations.

Astro-Seek.com System message: Post has been written by user Seanfhear, who already deleted profile on this website:
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I´m having this issue as well with my family and with (previously) the group of photography which I was a member of. I always felt it has to do with my Mars in Libra (detriment) in 4H.

Looking at your chart (using Whole Sign system) I noticed the following, which might be the trigger:

- First, your 3H is cancer and its lord, Moon, is in 1H in Taurus (exalted). This looks auspicious to me.
- Then, I see that your 10H is Aquarius, and its lord, Saturn (classical) is in 1H. 10H is about authority or public dealings.
- To add to it, Ketu (or South Node ) which usually signifies detachment, is also in 10H of public or authority.

This makes me think that there is a detachment, somehow, from the public and this is signified by Saturn in 1H, the house of Self.
On the other hand, Venus, lord of Taurus (your 1H) is in the 10H. I think you are a caring person in general and caring for the well-being of others. Since we have exchange of lords between Aquarius and Taurus, this is ought to be some kind of auspicious signs (something usually called "yoga" in Vedic tradition).
If I would balance things out. I´d say it is in time that people will find your worth. That´s my humble opinion.