What do you know about Capricun sun, Virgo Moon and Cancer rising - Discussions, questions

mysteryoflove75 » Ways_of_Leavin' Same. I´ve become much more socal and recheable last past years. In high school for example, during break, I refused to stay with the other kids, I was such a loner that I walked to my house and go back to school, everyday; It taked the whole time of the break so my class never knew where I was during it lol. I was very very withdrawn. But thank god, since 2018 I think, I´ve become more and more open to people but not enough for certain people I guess.
It´s funny cause I didn´t have this problem when I was little, I was shy, but still open to people. My teenage years were weird. I had literally zero friends lol. Maybe that´s why I don´t know how to act with my actual friends now and why I don´t really care about having friends anyways.
I´m good on my own.

People should accept me like I am, I agree. But I also can understand them. It must suck to have a friend like me. :/

Yeah I´m agree and that´s why people see us as cold hearted, cause we say the things like they are, without wasting any time. In a bluntly way for my case.

Ways_of_Leavin' » mysteryoflove75 I´m kind of similar actually... I usually don´t speak with people too much (or most people, anyway). I guess Aqua Sun/Pisces ASC would be one of the more solitary Sun ASC combos though... of course my personal planets in H12 ! (so it shouldn´t be a wonder) Your chart is different - I feel more social with Sun conjunct Venus, even in H7..? But I see you have that conjunction conjunct Neptune. Chart ruler is square to Pluto. Your Draconic chart gives you a Pisces Moon and Aqua ASC... I feel, often, but not always - Pisces and Neptune influence makes people so sensitive, so we just have to retreat? I´m talking not only social interaction but all kind of interaction, events, occurrences... Aqua likes to be social but is also somewhat of a loner. I´ve become much more social and ´reachable´ last past years - maybe it´s my progressed Gemini Asc..? Anyway, I get where you are coming from.

People should accept you as you are though. Like some are extraverted others are just more introverted. And I think it´s not anyway healthy to stay on your phone 24/7 (yes, it´s what you have to when every friend, grandma, colleague, etc is using ´the apps´)

I´m also quite an honest person, people have actually remarked it (sorryy ?!)... My Mercury is in Capricorn, conjunct Saturn. My final dispositor of basically all my natal chart planets is Saturn. I guess much Capricorn influence would tend to make one honest, yes... (though I have also met Caps who are *very* mindful of their image, and not necessarily so straightforward). To me, Cap, Aqua and Scorpio are "no bullshit" signs. Also Aries and Taurus come to mind.

mysteryoflove75 » Ways_of_Leavin' Hey guys, thank you for taking your time to help me out with this. Y´all right. I feel like I don´t have the same perception of friendship as my friends for example, I don´t need as much attention and to talk to them every day, yet I love them with all my heart. That´s why people see me as cold, because I feel like I don´t need people as much as they do, without any pretention. But after that, even if I don´t, I still love them and want them in my life. For example, my best friend is a Taurus and she can´t stop saying that "she´s sick of me" cause I don´t respond to her calls, even tho I’m always here for her when she really needs me. I´m a good friend and I always protect mines. I just value my time,if you don´t have anything "important" to tell me and you only want to chat, you can always text me and even if I don´t reply to you in the next minute, I will when I want to. I don´t belong to people.
And maybe, that´s why my love life sucks more I think, I never had a serious relationship in my whole life and I´m 23... When a person interest me, the interest never lasts long. I know that it can hurt people but what can I do? I can´t force myself if I don´t want to.
I loved one person in my whole life, it was a crush, and it lasted 3 years (2017/2020) even after I stopped talking to that person. It´s not like I need love or someone in my life either tho, I don´t care for the moment.

I have one question about honesty, I´m too honest, I know it´s a quality but it can also be a failure sometimes. And I can´t control that lol. Do you guys know something about that ? I heard that it´s a Cap thing.

Ways_of_Leavin' » Jaided Yes, agree with this... Was gonna say that Cancer is very sensitive. So insecurities or fear of getting slighted might cause one to hold back, or retreat into a shell as you say. I used to be a lot like this when I was younger - my ASC is in the Cancer decan of Pisces. ASC dwad is additionally in the sign of Cancer, as well as my Sun´s dwad.

I see Taurus and Virgo as very loving signs. They might not appear as ardent as Fire or Water - but their words hold weight. They mean what they say, and say what they mean. They keep their promises. They might show their love in more practical ways.

Ways_of_Leavin' » mysteryoflove75 I see. I had a look...

Not showing empathy at all... are you sure about your time of birth? I thought Cancer risings are usually perceived as caring and warm... You DO have Saturn square your ASC though. This could lead one to become very self-conscious and insecure. Capricorn Sun with Cancer ASC I anyway would see as someone cautious. Well... I know someone with that combo who is quite different. But she has a playful and a bit showy Leo Moon. While your Moon, your chart ruler, is in Virgo, a feminine more modest sign. Actually, Cancer, Virgo and Capricorn I see as the most cautious signs. What I like about your chart - I think it could make you like a "rock" to other people, someone to lean on ? (Of course first you will learn to feel more secure with yourself.) Cancer energy can be very caring - but what I have noticed, and this is my personal opinion - is that often she needs to feel comfortable herself first. Well like anyone but. I see that as H1 or Sun in Cancer, or when Cancer placements in the 1st - we are also very emotionally concerned about ourselves. Because H1 is ruled by Aries - "me first" (but again - an opinion than not everyone may share).

What stands out to me is that you have Sun conjunct Venus, and that this conjunction (widely) conjuncts your Descendant from the 7th house. With Sun and Venus in Capricorn you should be someone who is serious in matters of the heart. Cap Venus might not be the most expressive. But on the positive she is very loyal in love. I do think that Sun conjunct your Venus should make you more warm and affectionate. Probably you are quite charming to people. You have much to give. You put a high value on your relationships. I can see that it would bother you much when you perhaps feel that people do not see the ´true´ you.

As they say about Capricorn it ages like a fine wine. I think, if you can trust and appreciate yourself more, let your insecurities go (which may be more pronounced with Sun Cap/Moon Virgo) you will be more appreciated, and actually quite popular. And hey, Capricorns are seriously the funniest !! Basically every Cap I have met cracked me up (my Mercury is in Cap though so I could be a bit biased - I mean speaking of humor)

mysteryoflove75 » Ways_of_Leavin' Hey, Sorry there was a mistake on my profile.

Here´s my chart birth if you wanna take a look at it.

Ways_of_Leavin' You are Virgo Moon, or Aquarius Moon ?