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What makes this person asexual?
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August 25, 2021 at 15:34


August 25, 2021 at 12:28

August 24, 2021 at 18:14


August 23, 2021 at 15:42

There´s no difference between life force and sexual energy. They are just the same thing. 2 years ago I had a totally different idea about it, but teaching after teaching I came to accept this.
This doesn´t mean people screwing around with everybody are more alive than those who are into celibacy. The expression of our sexuality is something very different and I still need to grasp the "finesse" of it.

August 23, 2021 at 15:33

If it cannot be expressed in the way it was meant to be, it will express itself in other ways of a negative variety: disorders, perversions, sicknesses, etc.
The sexual energy can be sublimated...but it is doubtful that those who declare themselves "asexual" are spending hours a day doing pranayama (specific breathing exercises) to sublimate their sexual force...and even then, the sexual energy does not disappear, it is merely redirected into proper channels, under the guidance and control of the practitioner...not repressed, or treated with an attitude of aversion.

August 23, 2021 at 13:58

I really can believe she feels that way. It´s something that I also used to think, that sex wasn´t something for me. Biologically she is set up for having sex. One day this will surface. It´s not because this is not expressed at this moment it never will. And even if she doesn´t have sex ever, which is possible, she had sexual organs...
*SPOILER ALERT*
It´s like the asexual storyteller in Nymphomaniac, in the end it suddenly and tragically surfaces.
You can be mad at the people who claim it, but we are all sexual beings, even if we don´t have sex at all.


August 22, 2021 at 16:25

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Hi :)
Unfortunately i cant tell you why she is asexual according to her birth chart ... But i had to write here, because i have read several times that asexuality doesnt exist and it makes me really annoyed and a little angry, when people tell other people what they are or are not, because to me it feels like a disrespect.
If your friend says she identifies as asexual, she is asexual and the only person allowed to question this is herself. :))

August 22, 2021 at 16:05

Probably she has some kind of block like others´ have mentioned. Mars is in opposition to Saturn. 5th H ruler, Pluto, is also in hard aspect to Saturn. Pluto can be obsessed with control (yes, Pluto can both be obsessed and controlling) - with Mars conjunct Pluto sexuality could possibly be power based. She is a Cancer Sun with a Scorpio Moon which may or may not support this (wanting control in general). As a Cancer Sun/Asc we should be dealing with someone extraordinarily sensitive; chart ruler Moon is in Scorpio in the 4th too, squaring Neptune in the 7th. Venus in Taurus, especially coupled with that Cancer Sun should give much sensuality. Perhaps she has trust issues, or didn´t find the right one yet? I see Taurus/Cancer/Scorpio as very possessive and interested in long-term instead of flings (but you never know...) I see also her Venus forms a quincunx to Chiron... that one is possibly a biggie and could lead her to have insecurities in regards to Venusian qualities/areas - love, relationships, appearance...
Well both Venus and Mars are in ´hard´ aspect to Chiron actually... Some wounding in the matters related to these two planets could be present... I don´t want to speculate any more on the exact issue, but whatever it is I´m sure it is not something life-long.


August 21, 2021 at 20:43

But it is challenged with

Neptune in 7th house does not help also. It gives sometimes unrealistic expectation of love or falling in love with someone that is out of reach.



August 21, 2021 at 14:57

August 21, 2021 at 14:29

Both Pluto and Uranus are known to go to extremes, from one end of the spectrum to the other. And they are tied into their sexual planets (Venus, Mars).
Having a Scorpio Moon maybe it will change.



August 21, 2021 at 08:10

I can assume there´s a blockade on it, like in the 5th house


Mars is in 5th too, in



I understand. I was very insecure being a young boy about sex, I did not know I had Asperger´s at the moment. Once I cleaned up the mess in myself and had 2 relationships in a row besides some ehm... messing around. One of those became my wife. I also claimed I was asexual, because I never had a gf or watched porn. This has completely turned and now I have to watch myself not to loose myself and my values.
So I don´t know how old your friend is, but I really doubt she is asexual unless she´s a mushroom or so


August 21, 2021 at 07:11





August 21, 2021 at 03:02

Uranus in 8th squaring Venus probably doesn´t help
Chiron in 5th as well


August 21, 2021 at 02:48


Pluto in Sag, your friend is still young yet. I don´t know her background or state of mind. Barring any traumatic events, mental, or religious reasons, I would look towards physical health / hormonal imbalances for an answer.

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