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Why am I always attracting convicts and strange people?
June 18, 2021 at 10:26 (UT/GMT)

Why am I always attracting convicts and strange people?
Hey, I know it´s a strange question, but I seem to always attract people who has been in jail, who has been having mental and characteristic problems and just people who are out of the blue, really.
I once dated a guy who "experimented" with me, whether he was straight or not. I´ve talked to multiple people who had been in jail, which I learnt later on. And currently, I´m quite interested in a convict who has +10 years more to serve.
Is it always going to be like this, or is it just a phase?
I´d really appreciate if you can say a few things that´s caught your attention in my chart.
I once dated a guy who "experimented" with me, whether he was straight or not. I´ve talked to multiple people who had been in jail, which I learnt later on. And currently, I´m quite interested in a convict who has +10 years more to serve.
Is it always going to be like this, or is it just a phase?
I´d really appreciate if you can say a few things that´s caught your attention in my chart.


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June 23, 2021 at 16:23


June 23, 2021 at 15:47


June 23, 2021 at 15:22


June 23, 2021 at 12:55

Your observations are very accure, every part of it!
But I must mention that I am very bad with reading and writing. I like creating stories or scenarios in my head, but since I´m a visual learner, and studying cinema (directing and producing), I always disliked letters and writings in general. Because I feel that visuals can be understood by everybody who can see. You wouldn´t have to speak any kind of language to understand. Like Charlie Chaplin example. He wouldn´t speak, just act. Everybody could see the same exact thing, and laugh at the same joke. I dont know if it makes sense but i feel like visualism is for all and its powerful, and its something uniting.
Short story: im very lazy to read lol

June 23, 2021 at 11:57

Retraumatisation is a well known concept in psychology and it explains why we keep on having the wrong lovers. Someone who has healed it´s trauma just thinks "no way I´m gonna put up with this kind of guy" and leaves.

June 22, 2021 at 02:00


June 21, 2021 at 16:14

First of all, your past life symbol is in Pisces, 12th house, conjunct Sun, Mercury and Jupiter. So, in your past life - you were isolated in some way, be it jail, hospital, spiritual retreat, or some other isolating situation, such as an artist, doing art, writing, etc. alone. Regardless of the situation, I´m sure that you connected with spirit. Pisces, 12th house is not of this world. It is more open, spacious, and intuitive and there is access to much creativity, imagination and psychic empathy. Being not of this world, many Pisces people have a lost feeling - a not belonging feeling - and this is because they are attuned to what is not of this world.
The wound - there´s always a wound with the SN - is that you need to learn discrimination - to be able to tell the difference between what is you and what is not you. That´s Virgo. It´s positive qualities are analysis to understand, discrimination, looking at the details. Pisces is tuned into the wider picture - the large spiritual realm - where there are few differences - Love and Consciousness is in everything. Pisces knows that. But it´s Virgo who picks things apart and sees the little components that make up the whole - and this is how one can be of a different kind of help to others. Your NN in Virgo in the 6th, is grounding you in more discrimination, more detail, more seeing of the little details that can make a difference. This is the new territory you are here to learn.
The 6th is about service.
Chrion in Scorpio in the 8th also points to part of your wound. Scorpio is about the dark side - the unconscious emotional world - the parts of us that need transforming. You are focused there and Chiron says, it´s an issue. You are attached to it - bonded with it. So, what´s interesting to me is that it is trine Mars in Pisces conjunct ASC. Pisces can also be a place of letting go - a place where you can rise above qualities or issues - and it seems like you have or can - let go of attachments, if you want to. You may like to be attached to the dark side because it grounds you to something. Pisces can feel very ungrounded. But, Virgo is grounding, and you have Venus in Capricorn - also grounding. Mars on the ASC can give you physical energy - energy to do something - motivation to do something.
With a Gemini IC, I think you can be an excellent communicator - you want to communicate, teach, write, connect - and you´ll do it in an imaginative, inspired way with Mercury in Pisces.
Moon, Uranus and Neptune in Aquarius, gives you another kind of intuition - a kind of inner knowing that is more akin to wisdom. It is an inward type of creative, inventive energy - that is beyond words - but can easily use words. You may be highly compassionate, but you are unlikely to get very attached to people with Moon in Aquarius - you have a naturally built-in boundary. Saturn in Aries is similar.
With Venus in Capricorn, you want to work - to do something - to really do something - creative and beautiful and loving. All your planets in the upper left quadrant indicates that you desire to have an impact on the world. My guess is that you have talent in writing and that your spiritual orientation can bring much healing to others. This comes from down deep inside you. I think you need to attune to your Virgo North Node - Virgo is a good writer, usually. You will probably find the service or services you will provide others as you move forward in sharing your natural compassion.
Anyway, I don´t want to repeat what I said earlier, so I´ll leave it here. I love your compassionate heart! Thank you for posting here . . .

June 21, 2021 at 04:27


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June 20, 2021 at 20:09


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June 20, 2021 at 13:11

So, you are doing something by caring for people. Maybe you´ll find that doing something in service to others is most satisfying? In a way, we are Souls having a human experience, so we don´t belong here - and our stay seems shorter the older we get. Maybe the best remedy is to say, we belong to Spirit. That way, we can do things in the world to make it a better place while not needing to belong to it.
Just thinking out loud. Sorry if this isn´t very helpful.

June 20, 2021 at 12:37


June 20, 2021 at 12:23


June 19, 2021 at 23:44

And about what you said about "identity crisis" : focus on the very empathetic and spiritual qualities that you have. Jupiter is strong in your chart, in the first house. The Hand of God will always catch you if you fall.

June 19, 2021 at 22:46


June 19, 2021 at 22:00

Imo until Jupiter dasa starts in 2024 chances of great disappointments and distress in relationships can happen,especially since Rahu/Moon is starting soon,moon being the inauspicious lord of the 6th house for Aquarius Rising plus Rahu and Moon are not "friends" with each other.
Jupiter dasa will bring great changes for you especially financial since Jupiter is an natural indicator of wealth plus for Aquarius Rising it´s the ruler of two wealth houses, the 2nd and the 11th so better wealth, opportunities, profits,name and fame can happen during Jupiters dasa🙏

June 19, 2021 at 21:03

Assuming you have a good personality - and I have no reason to assume you don´t - I think you can have your pick of 80% or more of the single guys you would be interested in.

June 19, 2021 at 19:51

It´s quite possible that in your past life, you yourself were in jail. That is 12th house territory - places of isolation - like prisons, hospitals, monsteries. It could be that you are attracted to it because you´ve been there, done that. You may need to feel some resolution with being in jail or a jail-like situation if perhaps, you died in jail in that past life. If so, that would make sense. Even if your isolation was due to something else besides being in prison in the past life, you most certainly have a sense of isolation and empathy for anyone in that position. Your Sun and Moon are both in the 12th house - so you recognize this feeling - of not being part of the world somehow.
Essentially, Pisces is not of this world. It is more of a spiritual place - a creative place - a place where we have time and solitude to sense our souls. People who are mentally ill are also there in the 12th. It can feel likea lost feeling, a lack of belonging feeling, a not fitting in feeling. I bet you recognize something of this in yourself and others.
Pisces also has the talent of playing whatever role others need them to play. The are shape shifters. They can also have much compassion and empathy for others - and tend not to judge. You are like bringing home the lost puppies, maybe, to give them a chance for happiness.
The North Node in Virgo, 6th house is all about being of service to others - helping - being there for people. So, my guess is that you will want to be in a helping profession. As far as your personal life, I think if you truly want to and need to - you can learn to draw boundaries. I mean, you may be more discriminating as to which puppies you want to rescue. You can learn from experience who might be a stray before you jump into bed. But, chances are, if you´re interested in a man who has 10 more years to serve - there´s something drawing you into that world - and my guess is - unfinished past life business. Chiron in the 8th suggests that you may be overly attached to the "dark side" - the human unconscious emotions´ territory.
I think you need to do some reflection about your attraction - and do some inner work on yourself - as to what the attraction is about. A past life regression might prove to be interesting. What are you not seeing in yourself that is like what you are attracted to?
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June 19, 2021 at 19:07



June 19, 2021 at 19:02

A Short story about my time with convicts? I´m not much of a writer but sure, you can PM me anything you want to ask!

June 19, 2021 at 18:58


June 19, 2021 at 18:54

But I don´t think being pretty is enough to attract everyone. I mean you could be very pretty but people can still find you unattractive or irritating, right? But i get your point, you are saying I might attract a lot of people, and just pick the toxic and strange ones for myself? I guess that could be the case.
And There is nothing wrong with being strange if its in a harmless way. My partners always had traumatic and loveless lives, so they were broken people and I always ended up being in toxic relationships. I was just wondering if that can be explained astrologically.

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