Question about Leo

May 4, 2021 at 08:50 (UT/GMT)
(Scorpio) srgeorgio
Question about Leo
Does an unevolved leo show extreme and open coldness towards you once they don´t need you anymore? Like they want you to know they don´t need you any more. I´m not even talking about a breakup I mean just like when you are saying goodbye for the day or going somewhere without them ???

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May 6, 2021 at 05:43
(Scorpio) srgeorgio » goldenlion32
That´s some great leo insight! And thanks for the book recommendation. I love Steven Forrest I just got his book The Inner Sky
May 5, 2021 at 20:45
(Sagittarius) goldenlion32
I would recommend reading, "The Book of Fire", by Steven Forest to understand Fire Signs. Fortunately, just from being in a Leo Ascendant group, we don´t all act the same way, project the same way, and we all have our own Uranus, Neptune, Pluto, Jupiter, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Moon, and Sun, degrees, decans, and even Introverted or Extroverted.

I can tell you this plays in since I have a younger sibling that is Leo Ascendant, Jupiter in Leo, Mercury in Leo, Sun in Leo and a musician, with Uranus in Scorpio and Taurus in Chiron, Saturn in Virgo, Pisces Moon, Mars in Cancer.

As we joke about Darth Vader versus Yoda.

I naturally gravitate towards education, teaching, literature, music, art mediums.

I´m never really front and center stage, where he´s under the flashing lights in bars, different shows on the road, and hates religion, spiritual stuff, doesn´t care for most of what I do.

He will do everything the complete opposite I will do, and our value systems are quite different.

His girlfriend with Leo Ascendant and Sun in Leo and Venus in Leo, Saturn in Leo can´t stand being alone with me because she´s more extroverted, needs attention, doting, and needs to be the start of the show with her friends, will try to get sympathy. :61:

I could careless if people are around or not and used to being a single child and entertain myself since we were separated growing up. I rather not be front and center stage or draw attention to me. :61: I´m more about leave me alone and carry on.

He´s more of a fighter, drama, trauma, and unethical. :61: Bad influence. I don´t even let my child around him.

I love the book, because it hits the target. We assume every Leo is the "Star of the Show", Ego, and wants to Steal the Show, but being surrounded by fire signs a lot I believe some are more dramatic more than others and have a fit about things, while others of us grow, mature, and evolve.

I wouldn´t put us all in one box, one size doesn´t fit all.
May 5, 2021 at 20:14
(Leo) Zephyrin
Does that Leo have Cancer or Scorpio placements? Because those types can be easily offended by any adverse behaviour and you may have to quarrel. To be honest they act childishly annoying and it takes lots of time to grow up.

"...going somewhere without them ???"

In friendships, they act like they can suck up your life that if you go out with others without saying anything as if excluding, that is something they hate.

As a Leo, if I would act cold to a Scorpio, he/she either acted extremely selfish or wanted to set a meaningless distance between me and him/her. If you are sure that you did nothing wrong to him/her, then he/she is just an old child, a manipulative bum and it is up to you whether you break up or not.
May 5, 2021 at 09:56
(Scorpio) srgeorgio » RohiniMoon
Yes you are right. I have always liked leos but not been able to see why they are the way they are on their negative side (only negative from my own point of view) until I learned about astrology and the leo archetype.

Astrology has helped me be forgiving and understanding of them, their pride and their need for attention from many people. Just have to accept it and let them be. It´s not their fault, there´s nothing wrong with them, it´s just the shape of their soul.
May 5, 2021 at 08:47
(Aries) bodhi963 » Cind
thanks for the advice :78: :78: :78: :78: :78:
May 5, 2021 at 08:35
(Scorpio) srgeorgio » nutelina
You are not imagining things I feel the moon placement too and it´s not even my chart ruler. I kept a moon diary for a long while and the patterns in the changes of feelings and occurances are undeniable to me.
May 5, 2021 at 08:26
(Scorpio) srgeorgio » Moon_Queen
Oh that´s interesting. I don´t know anything about vertex I will have to look that one up, thanks
May 5, 2021 at 08:24
(Pisces) Moon_Queen
Your Vertex in Leo is making you more sensitive to Leos so, even if they do behave like that, no one actually cares that much as you guys with Leo-Vx do, thanx to that sensitive spot.
May 5, 2021 at 08:23
(Scorpio) srgeorgio » Cind
Wow your moon-mercury aspect analysis is spot on thanks!
May 5, 2021 at 08:16
(Aries) nutelina » Cind
Thanks, I was wondering why I feel like a Gemini :61:
May 4, 2021 at 23:35
(Pisces) Cind » nutelina
Ye definitely, any transit aspects to your natal moon or transiting moon changing signs will have an effect on your mood.

I always look at transits to my Sun or where the transiting Sun is as it has more impact on my emotions.
May 4, 2021 at 23:00
(Virgo) RohiniMoon…

He knows all about it...

The chipmunks genuflect to him! :92: :61: :4:
May 4, 2021 at 21:33
(Leo) Sunnyshadow » nutelina
Just joking around with you guys.

Thanks to JJ too, :1: always enjoy reading the banter on here :37:
May 4, 2021 at 20:53
(Aries) nutelina » Cind
Hmm sorry of the off topic question but I wondered if the rulership changes when the sun transits or if it is fixed like you say? Like I´m ruled by the moon, my moon is in Taurus but the moon changes often and I do feel that or I am imagining things...
May 4, 2021 at 20:51
(Aries) nutelina » Sunnyshadow
Some are awesome indeed bro :20: But female? They are harsh, incl. sex.
May 4, 2021 at 20:13
(Pisces) Cind » srgeorgio
To me it looks like because the ruler of his ascendant is the Sun and it is Scorpio. Could be that he does want that devotion as his Sun is in his 4th house as well, so from family.

It’s also square Neptune in his 7th house, and his moon is square Venus and mercury. I don’t think he can verbalise his feelings so he does things for attention.

My moon is sextile mercury and I am good at expressing my feelings and putting them into words.

Because he has mercury square moon he will not be able to do that. Until he learns how to overcome that obstacle of verbalising his feelings he will most likely project them in other ways.
May 4, 2021 at 19:58
(Aries) Jay Jay » srgeorgio
You are welcome.
May 4, 2021 at 19:19
(Scorpio) srgeorgio » Jay Jay
Thank you this is highly accurate
May 4, 2021 at 19:06
(Aries) Jay Jay » Sunnyshadow
Not to worry! When a Leo is mature - it is the warmest, kindest, noblest, and loyalest friend one can ever have. One feels blessed to be in Leo´s presence. Leo´s energy is so very attractive and fun to be with! I love them! They ARE awesome!
May 4, 2021 at 19:02
(Leo) Sunnyshadow » nutelina
Leo gets tired of being hated on for being awesome :2:
May 4, 2021 at 18:55
(Aries) Jay Jay
I think there are a combo of factors. First, the ruler of the chart - Sun - is in Scorpio, 4th house. That is in contrast to the Leo rising - in that Scorpio is cautious, and fearful, and can cause a person to withdraw. The Leo rising wants to engage, needs to engage, but the Scorpio Sun is more private. It can be fearful. It also can have poor boundaries. It could be that when he starts to feel too close, he might get fearful.

Mars and Moon in Virgo can make him feel less confident - in fact - self-critical and downright self-deprecating. This is also in contrast to the Leo energy. Quite frankly, I´ve seen many charts with Leo rising where the person truly needs to learn to feel confident. He needs to explore who he is - self-identity is an issue. He did not have a very nurturing childhood, and so, he´s most likely trying to find himself.

He is very sensitive to how others relate to him. He could be overly sensitive - and if feeling or sensing a slight - even if unintended - could turn cold.

Libra IC with Saturn near - can be cold, if immature. He is likely not emotionally secure.


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May 4, 2021 at 18:26
(Scorpio) srgeorgio » goldenlion32
Thank you for the reading of this chart. Very insightful and interesting. A lot of interesting things there that give me some insight.
May 4, 2021 at 18:21
(Scorpio) srgeorgio » Jaided
Yes it being a 4th house thing does make sense to me somehow. Thanks for the suggestion
May 4, 2021 at 18:15
(Scorpio) srgeorgio » Kima217
That´s interesting. What part of your chart does that come from do you think? I see you have mercury in leo but I´m wondering whether it´s a cancer / 4th house thing instead because this person has their sun in 4th house and Jaided suggested that as potentially the source in a comment above.
May 4, 2021 at 18:10
(Virgo) RohiniMoon » srgeorgio
"Trouble is, the next time you see them they are nice again and all is forgotten and forgiven."

That´s because they don´t want to let on that it - or anything - bothered them.

A lion licks their wounds in private.
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