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Rosincvist » BeatrixKiddo Ninja is a Japanese word.
What about Danish, more and more the snow melts in Greenland which is a big island!

JayJayAstrology » BeatrixKiddo These two T-squares can be seen as one, because Uranus and Neptune are conjunct. They are "blended" into one energy - which is the definition of a conjunction. So what you have is Neptune?Uranus opposite Mars and these two square Sun. But then you have Neptune and Uranus conjunct DES and Mars conjunct ASC.

To me, there is a theme of independence verses relational energies. Mars is very independent in a highly sensitive sign - Cancer - and then Uranus/Neptune is also quite independent-oriented in Capricorn in the house of relationships and they are square Sun in Libra - a very relational sign that is also highly sensitive to other people´s energy. This is significant conflicting energy - tension - all around relationship.

It forces you to grapple with the two urges - being independent within relationships is the positive result of grappling with it. Part of the resolution is to tune into yourself - inwardly - to find your true self instead of partly defining yourself through other people´s responses to you or your responses to them - relationship. It´s kind of a private process for you.

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Rosincvist » BeatrixKiddo It is extremely unusual to have even one completely unaspected planet; Most of us have interdependent co-existence slanted charts!

Rosincvist » BeatrixKiddo The arc-minute exact / conjunction + midpoint redeems your afflicted ! is the higher octave of Mars and therefore can´t not be involved!

Alisa1 » BeatrixKiddo Thank you!

stellium12 » BeatrixKiddo Thanks for the reply. I had to laugh when you mentioned not being able to finish your sentences. I know it irritates people I talk to when my mind wanders away in the middle of a sentence.

Rosincvist » BeatrixKiddo erschel´s involvement forces evolution in what would otherwise be a source of suffering!

Anni23 » BeatrixKiddo Thanks for this. I didn´t know that these aspects were so strong. So I haven´t been able to work out the influence. Apart from my family being a capricorn family, actually they are too unemotional for me. I would say that I am reasonably emotional but I´m also very in control usually. My experience ao far has only given me the opportunity to save myself psychologically so to speak. I did used to be more emotional when I was younger. But those were very tough times and I was mostly ignored.
I would say that I am often highly sentimental. But not in proximity to certain others.
Actually according to this website the elements of air, earth and water are about the same but I have lower fire

Being kind to other people since has also made me tougher emotionally when they disregard you.

I used to when I was younger think something of "the imagined past" yes, idolize people etc. But not for some time now

viv » BeatrixKiddo You could reframe that obsessive thinking about someone or an event as inwardly trying to get to the source of your emotions. It’s a Scorpio trait I think. Here’s something personal of mine by way of an example. Someone really offended me recently by talking about something I’d told her in confidence in an open group she was facilitating. I was outwardly calm, said this was not something I wanted to discuss, but underneath I was furious. It took me several days to process the level of betrayal I felt about a behaviour she probably wasn’t even conscious of and my judgements about how a facilitator ought to behave. I had to accept and let go my emotion and think through the issues. E.g. Now I have to a) accept that my trust level has altered,b) give her the benefit of the doubt that she may have had no conscious idea of what she was doing, c) find a way to raise the issue constructively. So you could say I was obsessing. Or you could say I have been trying to get to the source of the incident and work out what I want to do. Just an example! Best Viv

boyakasha the guru » BeatrixKiddo What´s your obsession with exactly?

JayJayAstrology » BeatrixKiddo Obsessive thinking usually implies a conflict is unresolved. There´s plenty in your chart that might suggest obsessive thinking - as Scorpio-Virgo energy can be obsessive, as well as planets in the 8th house. Mercury is thinking - and your Mercury is in Scorpio. You have a Virgo IC - ruled by Mercury, so your natural inner feeling might be self-doubting or self-critical.

But what are you thinking about? The 5th house is about self-identity. The Pluto in Scorpio in the 5th is saying that you are evolving your self-identity. Venus adds to that evolutionary process. Saturn in Aquarius in the 8th - is saying something similar - there is a focus upon your identity - as Aquarius is about being your true self. Are you an outsider who needs to learn to fit in better? Aquarius can also be obsessive - it is a thinker.

Chiron is in Leo in 2nd house - so the theme again is - there´s some problem with self-identity - how you value yourself - how you think about yourself.

Your Sun and Jupiter in Libra provides you with a means to affirm a positive self-identity - as well as the ability to feel other people´s energy and adopt what you like in them for yourself. It´s the Libra superpower.

Mars in Cancer on the ASC - could present a conflict - if you are super-sensitive as many Cancer ASC are. Mars could make you more assertive and out there when Cancer is too sensitive and prefers not to be assertive and out there. Yet, you could be using Aries to protect yourself - defend your boundaries - instead of feeling like you have to assert. It depends upon how you´re using those energies.

I think you may think less obsessively once you have a handle on your goal to redefine yourself more positively and make sure you have positive people around you. Do you relate to this?

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viv » BeatrixKiddo Hi Beatrix
thank you for the question. I think the key is probably Saturn in the 8th which is trine your sun. You could use it to develop a daily practice of writing “ morning pages,” everything that comes into your mind for half an hour, then make breakfast or go for a run. Or you could watch your dreams and journal them and write poetry from them, also as a daily discipline. Or you could do mindfulness mediation at a set time everyday.
The intensity and depth of Mars opp Neptune Uranus and the shocking and annoying things other people do are not going to go away. Your depth of feeling Venus in Scorpio will not change. The obsession has to be useful! The question, I suspect, is how to develop a disciplined mind which can be informed by your insights and emotions! You are approaching your first Saturn return so this could be part of your commitment to being who you want to be, appreciating but shedding family and cultural influences that you no longer want to have as central parts of your identity.
Best Viv

tomdos » BeatrixKiddo IMHO what you descreibe may be anxiety rather than obsession.
Anyways, practice the art of letting go. If something upsets you and grips you, you first need to realize that it is YOU who is gripping, holding on to the problem. It is you who is torturing yourself.

I know how hard that is, to let go. Seems almost impossible. My technique: Help yourself with the big picture. Look at the sky and sense the universe. It is endless, with myriad of stars. What are you and your problem, on this measly little planet? Nobody even cares except you. And if they do, they will not care tommorrow, in a year, definitely one day. Time solves everything and everything turns into a dust. That is the ultimate release of the grip - a context, a universal context. Also, a nature - so calm in the wildeness and always going on. The soothing wind, the vast sea, the unviersal rythm. There is the grip simply non-existent.

Buddhists say: if a problem has a solution then worries are needless. If the problem has no solution then worries are futile. So, why worry?

From astrological point of view what I just described may be helpful to overcoming some critical moments resulting from you oppositions and squares.

Emanuel » BeatrixKiddo I agree with Rosincvist : you must channel your innate strong scorpio obsession in somethin good,constructive ,something usefull for you a,your loved ones and society.

Trey » BeatrixKiddo Yeah I agree! With Venus and Pluto on top of each other you probably love to go deep into things...

Anni23 » BeatrixKiddo I am actually unsure if lady gaga is a infj. Scorpio to me can be any nfs depending on the sign combinations, though I think I have seen it more often than not in infps and possibly enfps (whom also are more often than not fire-water domiants) of course Scorpio is ruled by mars despite being a water sign.

As for your signs, I would say it mostly seems like a possible enfp. Though my only thought is that you have no fire. Are you extroverted still despite your ascendant?

Rosincvist » BeatrixKiddo Venus and Pluto are very close to the arc-minute, that kind of means "Find a positive obsession" because there shall always be obsession!

Ppaauullii » BeatrixKiddo Thank you! Very interesting . It changes my conception 😊

JayJayAstrology » BeatrixKiddo Hi! Welcome to the forum! I hope you enjoy it!

꓄꒐ꋊꋊ꒐ꏂ » BeatrixKiddo Hello to you too and welcome to the forum.